Be careful who you love, support & help in this life, because when you show love & render great help to an ingrate they can turn around to label you as the root cause of all their misfortunes, troubles & growth.
If you have a serious business that you care about, please check people's online footprints before hiring them into sensitive roles. Don't go and hire a compulsive attention seeker that will disclose all your client data for Twitter likes and kill your company with lawsuits.
A lot of women are incredibly generous. They provide for their families, they hold down homes, they support their partners, they raise children, they show up in ways that go completely unnoticed because they are not doing it for applause. They are just doing it, quietly, consistently, selflessly. And the world barely acknowledges it.
Meanwhile, there is a certain breed of man online who cannot stop telling you how much of an alpha he is. He posts about leadership, about dominance, about being the king of his castle. But if you look closely, his life does not match his words. His relationships are unstable. His home is chaotic. His sense of self is so fragile that he needs to convince strangers on the internet that he is powerful, just to feel a sense of control & belonging.
Some of the people you see calling themselves alpha men here are just insecure weak fools. They live for male validation. They are just performing masculinity for an audience of other insecure men who are performing right back at them.
There is no true alpha male that makes noise about it online. Real leadership does not need to announce itself. Real strength does not need to prove itself. Real men do not need to tell you they are real men. Their lives speak. Their actions speak. The way they treat their partners, their children, their employees, their community, that is what speaks.
nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i'm a bad person. i have my ways and my days, but i'm solid, my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
Girl, if he can’t understand how his actions affect you, he’s not ready for love. You can’t build a future with someone who turns every conversation into an argument.
I used to think that holding your tongue was a sign of maturity, but l realized that a true sign of growth and maturity is being able to vocalize your feelings in an appropriate manner even if you are angry. Holding your tongue just fosters unexpressed feelings that lead to trauma being stored in the body.
Distance yourself from every person who makes you feel like a lesser being. Someone who makes you edit yourself. Lower your standards. Become a watered-down version of yourself just to make them feel comfortable. They're triggers of what you're trying to leave behind. Let them go. Without guilt.
You don’t need to be cold. Just inaccessible. Respond slower. Reveal less. Be polite, but unreadable. When people have to guess how you feel, they start treating you like someone they can’t afford to miscalculate. That’s how distance breeds influence.
Cancer rarely starts with agonizing pain. It usually starts with a minor inconvenience you decide to ignore.
Here are 6 early warning signs of common cancers you should NEVER brush off.
1. Colon Cancer = Blood in your stool.
You bring in Expatriates and pay them in USD, give them a car, driver, chef, maid and house in ikoyi
You will employ Nigerians and pay them peanuts for the same role and expect them to have work ethic and not be preoccupied with survival
@HarmlessHQ The only difference is that in mutual funds you sleep and see profit. But in this your poultry business, even your fowls will have more peaceful sleep than you.
you need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. that’s not you or who you want to be. so if they being that out of you, they’ve got to go