Ruchino

Academic enthusiast, Moral philosopher, Educationist, Wife, Mother. CRA fan!

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

I saw a skit that I love its content.

A man's girlfriend brought a PT strip showing 2 red lines.

Immediately he saw it, he hugged her and was excited that she is pregnant.

Then she said:

"Are you excited? But you have not married me yet".

He said that's not a problem and that he would arrange to meet her people soon.

Then she said anyways, the PT strip wasn't hers and that she saw it in his sister's room and brought it to show him.

That was when the man reacted angrily and threw the strip on the table.

"What rubbish is this, how can my sister get pregnant outside of wedlock? What sort of disgrace is this?"

Then she asked him:

"But you were just excited that I was pregnant for you and you have not married me yet".

He then said:

"Common, you're my babe na, this is my sister".

She then said:

"So am I not another man's sister?"

She called him selfish and walked away and said that she was going back to her house.

Then the man called his sister on the phone and was angry with her and demanded an explanation.

That was when the sister said that she only used it for online content and that the 2 red lines were drawn with a red pen.

He checked and confirmed that it was true.

Then he hung up and started looking for his girlfriend and calling her name.

That's a very beautiful and enlightening skit that exposes that hypocrisy of men.

I am sure that many of you can relate to it.

AJD.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

PETROL IS 1900/litre. TINUBU MUST GO!

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

A married couple was childless for more than 16 years.

There was no pregnancy or even miscarriage throughout the period.

Everyone thought that the problem was from the wife, including her MIL.

The MIL called the wife all sorts of names, until the husband agreed to subject himself to a test with his wife.

When the result came out, it was discovered that the husband is impotent and his wife is okay.

The man pleaded with his wife not to tell his mother or his people and her people.

And suggested that she should travel to where no one knows her, have an affair with any man of her choice and try to see if she will get pregnant.

The wife refused but the husband insisted that she should do it and that he has given her the permission.

She then went to her people to discuss with them and told them what her husband suggested.

Her father then told her that since it was her husband that made the suggestion, she should go ahead to have a secret affair with any man of her choice.

And that she should never let her husband know that her family is aware of their secret plans.

The woman then traveled to another location, rented an apartment and found a man that she had an affair with and went back home to her husband after she missed her period.

That was how they had their first child.

The secret affair continued until they had 3 children before she stopped seeing the man.

Till today, the secret man doesn't know that she was ever pregnant for him, and her husband never met the man.

Marriage continues and they're happy with their children.

AJD.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

The young girls that I pity are those ones from poor homes who cannot wait for a man to come "rescue" them.

One 39 year old man that has managed to save 5m from age 28 and managed to rent one small house, will be spending 10k, 20k on her, and she'll be thinking that he has money.

Then he'll marry her when she's 22.

By the time she's 30, oga is 49 and tired.

And she already has 5 children to cater to.

Money no dey come again and oga go dey go village meeting dey do secretary of "Agbama federated union".

Na that time her eyes go clear.

End.

[Lady_L_ @Lee_Raa_Tuu]

6 years sober from heroin addiction and it's all through God's grace 🙇🏽‍♂️

Wow.

[Oyindamola🙄 @dammiedammie35]

You and your siblings don’t owe each other nothing keh 🥹🧎🏻‍♂️‍➡️

[𝑭𝒓𝒆𝒚𝒚 @Freyy_is]

can we start praying for the grace to love the responsibilities that come with answered prayers, not just the blessing itself?

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I don't know how many times I have said this, but I won't get tired of saying it.

Because almost every week, I read from wives who have regrets.

I have told you young women, if you have 10 men who are interested in marrying you, and 9 out of the 10 are below 35.

Please consider the 9 below 35 before considering the one above 35.

And that one who says he's 36 or 37, please verify that he is truly 36 or 37.

We have married women who are not even 35 yet who are already the breadwinners.

And their husbands are in their 40s or 50s.

Stop saying that you like much older men.

Keep the age gap slim and make sure that he's not a lazy man.

If a man that is far older than you says that he wants to marry you, make sure that he's not a struggling man.

He must show signs or evidence that he's doing well, and that his source of income is sustainable.

Do not listen to his pity stories.

Do not listen to "God will provide."

Do not get carried away with his "mature talks."

Do not get carried away by how good he is in bed.

This economy is tough.

And you need young men who would swallow their pride and get their hands dirty to feed, cloth and house you and your future children.

All these above 35 men have uneccesary pride and before you know it, when they get to their 40s, they'll tell you that they're tired and cannot do certain jobs to feed you and pay the bills anymore.

They'll start to depend on you.

If you try to remind them to buckle up, they'll start accusing you of wanting to kill them.

They'll be comparing themselves with their mates who are doing well, even when they have not put in the same effort.

They'll be attending village meetings and performing 'ummuna' upandan.

They'll be going from one church to another, looking for miracles.

They'll be going to the village to look for land that they can sell.

They'll be involving themselves in local politics and placing sports bets and gambling to see if they can make a little money.

And you will be aging faster than you should.

These things that I am warning you against are real, and they happen every day.

If you search within your family, you'd see at least one example of what I am talking about.

A man's most productive years start from 25 and begin to peak from 50.

Anything that he has not been able to achieve at 50, he'll struggle to achieve thereafter.

Except he has built a proper foundation for himself and planned accordingly.

Then that's when you'd see him happy in his 50s and still very responsible towards you and the children.

I am not God, but I know that I have wisdom.

And I also know that men would not be happy with this thread, and I don't care.

End.

[Gotthold @man_like_manny]

Supporting Buhari in 2015 was a lapse in judgment.

Doubling down in 2019 was a flaw in character.

Voting for Tinubu in 2023 was pure wickedness.

Pushing Tinubu for 2027? You’re an active threat to humanity, a complete waste of space, and a lost cause.

[Iconuzor @icons_closet]

My biggest fear for Nigeria is no longer how bad things are.

It is that the Nigerians who have never known anything better are becoming the majority.

They have no memory of what functional looks like. No reference point for what they should expect.

And you cannot demand a standard you don’t even know exists.

[𝐁𝐚𝐧𝐚 @Banacubana_]

I’m beginning to realize that Christianity isn’t just about trying harder not to sin, it’s about growing so close to God that the desire for sin starts to fade.🕊️

[Dada Damilola Esther @DamilolaEs1]

He makes all things beautiful in His own time.
NB: In His own time, not yours.

[komolika @Ichanpyaari]

your mom cooking a full meal while she's sick doesn't show how good of a mother she is. it shows how disgustingly pathetic her husband and son are.

[Bazz @MrBazz]

This is a wonderful endorsement of Obi's integrity. Any man that refuses the devil's gift is a man that can be trusted.

[Ossy Vincent @ossynoya]

NAFDAC has really left Nigerians to figure it out on our own.

May the best immune systems win and stay alive past 50.

[oseni rufai @ruffydfire]

When they run from your questions you are asking the right questions

That’s why the run

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Sometime last month, I was sitting in my veranda.

Then my daughter came to me that she wanted to show me her assignment.

I asked her to sit on my lap and she refused.

Me: come, sit here.

Her: No daddy, let me get another chair.

I insisted, and she obliged.

When we were done, I kissed her forehead and asked her to go. As she walked away, I called her back.

Me: I asked you to sit on my lap but you refused, why?

Her: Daddy, because it's not proper for a girl to sit on a man's lap.

Me: But I am not just any man, I am your father.

Me: I agree with you, and you should not sit on any man's lap. But you should trust your father to always protect you, and he won't harm you.

Her: Okay, daddy.

I knew my wife had been giving her all those orientations, and I was very pleased with what my daughter did.

Giving me the confidence that she's becoming more self-aware at almost 13.

Another day, I was about to drive out, and I asked her to go open the gate for me.

She was putting on shorts that were revealing her thighs.

She quietly went into her room, put on a long gown and came outside to open the gate.

I observed what she did and smiled quietly but didn't say anything.

I want to let some of you married men to know that some of these things are what your wives teach your daughters when you're not there.

And you're not so self-conscious as to even recognize the efforts of your wife.

You overlook these things and still do not appreciate your wife because she's not bringing in any money, and you think that makes her a liability or that she is not contributing much to your life.

You'll know your wife's level of moral assertiveness and discernment from the way your children behave in certain situations they find themselves in.

Especially in the public.

And especially your daughters.

Everything is not about money.

When you ask a woman what she is bringing to the table, this is part of it.

Your child will not just automatically learn morals or behavioral etiquette just like that, without a self-conscious mother.

The school, movies, church or even books may not be as effective as their mother's guidance.

And when you notice these things, do not just trivialize them or act as if they're normal or expected.

Learn to draw your wife's attention to what you observed, and thank her for her efforts.

That's why you're her husband.

End.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Nigeria is dangerously not inclusive.

I know this doctor that stammers. When he goes for interview, he sees his colleague spend up to 30 mins, but his interviews doesn't go past 5 mins. He could tell they just want to dismiss him and move to the next person.

The doctor went for his PLAB exam in England. A day was set aside for doctors with speech difficulty. They were given extra time and asked if the time would be enough for them. He passed the PLAB. In Nigeria, when he takes exam, he has to finish within the alloted time given to people without difficulty.

How do we expect perfection from people who are already with personal difficulties? We need to imbibe grace as a people.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

They call them basic amenities in other countries.

Electricity ❌
Water ❌
Fuel ❌
Roads ❌
Internet ❌
Security ❌
Healthcare ❌
Food❌

Nigerians are living below the level of savages while some others feed off our misery.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Every African country is supporting Mexico except South Africa.

They'll be disgraced in this world cup.

A country filled with hatred, envy and entitled lazy men & women.

We Africans can't wait to laugh at their downfall.

Very wicked people.

End.