Dante

I'm me

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

Hello Guys…happy sunday…

I have a story to tell you…

So let’s do it the old fashion way cos I’m about to take you to the past

Àló ooo

Àlò

Àló ooo

Àlò

And for those that don’t understand Yoruba

Story Story….

Story

Once upon a time

Timeee Timeee

This is a Story about The Osogbo War of 1840

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

Your mind desires what feels out of reach.

The more unavailable someone seems, the more valuable they often appear. Psychologically, scarcity increases desire and makes us appreciate what we cannot easily have.

2. Unfinished stories stay in your mind longer.
When a relationship ends without closure, your brain keeps replaying the memories, searching for answers that may never come.

3. Rejection can strengthen emotional attachment.
Being rejected doesn’t always reduce feelings. In many cases, it makes the brain focus even more on the person because rejection is processed as an emotionally significant experience.

4. We often fall in love with the version we create in our minds. When we don’t know someone completely, our imagination fills in the gaps, making them seem more perfect than they really are.

5. Uncertainty keeps emotions alive.
Not knowing where you stand with someone creates curiosity, anticipation, and emotional investment, making it harder to let go.

6. Strong emotions create lasting memories.
The brain stores emotionally meaningful experiences more deeply than ordinary moments, which is why some people remain unforgettable.

7. The “What If” effect keeps you emotionally attached.
Thinking about what could have happened often hurts more than accepting what actually happened because the mind keeps imagining a different ending.

8. Trying to forget someone can make you think about them even more.
The harder you force yourself not to think about someone, the more frequently those thoughts return.

9. Loneliness can make the past seem better than it really was.
When people feel emotionally lonely, they often remember only the good moments and overlook the reasons the relationship didn’t work.

10. Familiarity is often mistaken for love.
Sometimes we stay attached because someone feels familiar, not because they’re truly the right person for us.

11. Real love brings peace, not constant confusion.
Healthy relationships are built on trust, consistency, honesty, and emotional security—not mixed signals, uncertainty, or emotional games.

12. Healing begins when you accept reality instead of chasing possibilities.
The moment you stop idealizing someone and accept the relationship for what it truly was, your heart finally gets the chance to heal.

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Meanie_anna @Kingramos004 😂 once again “monkey using a smartphone”

It’s soo difficult for you to recognize typos…

It’s really cute watching you prance around with that device…

😂 damn you’re really making my afternoon…

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
(2) Stop begging.
(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.
(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.
(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
(12) Respect your time.
(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
(15) Be scarce sometimes.
(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.
(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back immediately .
(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best you can be.

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

Now that you have been presented with data why has your voice lowered

Because by stats…out of 100 men there’s still a chance that a Nigerian is not part of the criminals but you were making seem like 90% of the criminals were Nigerian Men…

You should learn a lesson from this…

Take your L in peace and if you want to slander the other gender try to do some research so that you don’t embarrass yourself…

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

If you weren’t trying to relate them why then do you have both scenarios in the same paragraphs?

You’re trying to be coy…because the topic isn’t about rape or pedophilia the topic is about poor morals, bad attitude and greed…

But simply because you want to say something you’re bringing in what is an actual crime…just to vilify Nigerian men cos you’re hurt…

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@HAYZEDProS Attention whores

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Meanie_anna Never will you see me anywhere trust, side or support a white man…

My tweet doesn’t even support them…however I won’t lie to prove a point.

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Meanie_anna @Kingramos004 Like is said “monkey using a smartphone”

Hope you’re having fun little chimp

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Raye_Hg Or is it irritating because you actually can’t do those things for yourself but you want that life so when they push against it…you get irritated?

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Raye_Hg Why exactly is it irritating? When the man is going to be doing the exact same things you expect him to do for you?

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Kingramos004 @Meanie_anna Her tweet describes the average Nigerian woman…always drawing silly narratives laced with incomplete thought processes thinking they have made a point…

It’s like watching a monkey use a smartphone…it’s cute but pointless

This is why I don’t waste energy on these “feminists”

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Fravkliin @abbyislovedd I swr…laugh wan kill me…

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@QueenX584562 @GreatDrizzy @Humphike360 @abbyislovedd Comparing?

Who is comparing…damn you have a lot of issues and I’m not even going to begin to engage someone like you on this…

Peace out ✌️

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@KunnujiC @talk2veee Na why I like d older generation be dis…na dat time she go first mount one feel wey be like 5 bedroom duplex so everybody go notice am

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@KunnujiC @talk2veee Block ke?…I will be there to eat rice and even take home…

I never ever allow another persons actions to determine my own actions…

I will enjoy Myself and she will see me having fun in her wedding. Guilt go wan finish am…

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@talk2veee This marriage no fit last sha

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@barbiefenty34 @mike1011_ @abbyislovedd 😂

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Fravkliin @abbyislovedd 😂 man this whole thread has been one hell if a ride

[Dante @ItsOnlyIfe]

@Chidiugoo @abbyislovedd They’re crashing out because the accusations are true and they know it