Most marriages struggle with intimacy, but it only takes a few intentional minutes to start fixing it. Don’t let being busy slowly steal what matters most.
Kenyan women, are an embarrassment to Africa, why are you obsessed with wyt men, I mean wyt old men, what happened to our men?what happened to other African men, Kenyan men what are you doing to make your women run away from you? As men you should take charge of your women!
A woman is asking ladies in their 30s how they cope with ovulation. She says her body is reacting like a volcano and she can’t concentrate on anything else.
Uko 20 marrying a 30yr old na unashangaa mbona hauko comfortable. It's cuz the person has lived their whole life hizo 10yrs and at the time that yous should be doing the same you're settling with someone who's past that. You'll keep feeling like you're trapped
I have seen a trend on TikTok where parents are saying when they realized they lost their connection with their children. The stories there are heart breaking 😭😭😭😭 . There is one that I found particulary sad , it says a man went to pay school fees and found children leaving for a school trip . He was surprised because his son never mentioned anything about that school trip , he found him in the class room alone reading a book . The son said he knew he would have said no and didn't bother.
Another one always thought his daughter was a quite girl , he took her to his sisters over the holidays and told her as much. When it was time to go pick her up ,he could hear her from the gate laughing and talking . Turns out it years of telling her to shut up had made her quite. Her sisters husband was more laid back and never complained when the children played around him . After a few days of being quiet she learnt it was safe to talk and play around the house.
The couples who stay happily married for decades aren’t lucky.
They have learned how to handle these 6 uncomfortable situations differently from everyone else:
I know a woman in my village whose husband left for Mombasa in the 80s, married a yellow yellow murima babe, completely forgot about them and ate his life well well with a big spoon. She really struggled, even lost her only son in some a dam as he had gone to fish just so he...
First rule ya dating ni ,..dont take a lady to a date for her to like you. You take a lady who already likes you to a date. Hii usipofwata utakua unafanya kazi ya kufeed wamama wenye wanakufa njaa.
Trust me, a woman who is actually marriage material rarely stays single at 30 and above.
The respectful ones, the peaceful ones, the loyal ones… men notice them early. They get chosen.
What is often left at that age is not is baggage, entitlement, bitterness, or a past that made serious men walk away.
I am not saying every woman over 30 is bad.
I am saying delay is usually not a mystery.
Good women get taken early.
The market does not keep the best stock forever.
Ukiwai patana na msichana anakwambia love language yake ni gifting, take off immediately...Wengi wao kwa relationship kazi yao inakuanga kupokea gifts na flowers, kitu kubwa watakufanyia ni kukuambia “aaaw… thank you baby.” "you are so sweet aki" Hiyo ndo contribution...utakuwa unanunua chocolates na teddy bears na kila kitu, kitu utapewa ni words of affirmation za upus!!