As a man, I disagree with you my sister.
You cannot police anybody into being faithful.
I have seen men set boundaries, restrict movements, monitor phones, control friendships, and do everything possible to prevent cheating and yet they still got cheated on.
Faithfulness is a personal choice. It comes down to character, values, self-control, empathy, and morals.
It is understanding that this person matters to me, and I do not want to hurt them.
Because no matter how people try to explain cheating, at the core of it is selfishness. You are prioritizing your own satisfaction over the emotional damage your actions will cause someone else.
So no, I do not want a woman I need to “keep in check.” I do not want someone I have to police into doing the right thing.
I want a woman who understands that cheating is wrong and chooses not to do it, regardless of opportunity.
Because let’s be realistic. If someone truly wants to cheat, how exactly do you stop it?
Will you stop her from working?
Stop her from attending events?
Stop her from going out alone?
Prevent people from visiting the house?
People who want to cheat usually find a way anyway.
You cannot manufacture loyalty through control.
The best you can do is choose someone with values, emotional discipline, moral guidance, empathy, and genuine love for you.
Someone who does not want to hurt you even when they have the opportunity to.
You cannot make an unfaithful person faithful through control. You will only exhaust yourself trying.
@tohire_ng@parallexbankng I recall that I was ghosted, too by them🤦♀️
Ah! I kept refreshing my email, expecting a word, even if it's a rejection. Never saw one.
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@kingsleypst Lol. I tried correcting one just last night. Told her she was leading a married man on and accepting all the advances by smiling at each condescending statements he makes, all in the name of admiring her beauty. She threw tantrums 😂
@PeterObi@Afrinvest it’s been over 48 hours since I made withdrawal and transaction is still pending… why is withdrawing looking difficult? Funding the wallet is easy but withdrawal is difficult?!
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@PeterObi@Afrinvest it’s been over 48 hours since I made withdrawal and transaction is still pending… why is withdrawing looking difficult? Funding the wallet is easy but withdrawal is difficult?!
This isn’t fair at all.