I love easy friendships. Wanna go out to eat? Yeah? Be there in an hour. You down for a concert? I booked your ticket, pay me when you can. Easy breezy.
it is draining to engage with people who think I’m arguing or personally attacking them every time I try to solve an issue or express my emotions. it creates mental exhaustion. if someone can’t tolerate you asking clarifying questions and sharing how you feel, keep your distance.