You're missing an entire dynamic. We want to solve problems, it's what we instinctively, intuitively do as men (protect, provide, solve problems, etc). That's not what she wants. She wants you to listen to her and be quiet. She wants you to validate her emotions so that she can work through them with your support. It's not about solving a problem. It's about being present to her emotionally which most men don't understand. It took me a couple of decades of marriage to "understand" this dynamic and I still screw it up. I ask my wife at the outset of a conversation where it seems like it's an emotional subject, "Do you want my advice or do you want me to just listen?"
My dad taught me
1. There are no rules
2. Nobody is in charge
3. Life’s not fair
This weekend I introduced him to “you can just do things” and he said he’s adding it to his list
They called him crazy…
Back in the 88, a man named William “Bill” Cooper started warning people about a secret society running the world, a banking cartel that controlled nations, currencies, and even the media.
He said they’d use sports, celebrities, and news anchors as tools of distraction, modern-day gladiators and storytellers, to keep the masses entertained while real power moved behind the curtain.
Sound familiar? 🏟️📺💰
He called it the “Roman Circus”, bread and entertainment for a sleeping public, while governments and bankers rewrote history in real time.
They mocked him.
They called him paranoid.
But year after year, his words hit harder.
William Cooper wasn’t crazy, he was early.
His book Behold a Pale Horse is still waking people up today.
#BillCooper #BeholdAPaleHorse #KWYH #TruthMovement #RomanCircus
@BakerBarbell Are your hips inverted? (Ankles together and knees naturally touch?) I didn’t learn how to move correctly until I had a couple acl surgeries. I think a problem with lifting is every body type/shape must move slightly different. Great post. I’m a long legged short torso guy.
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Five times to be quiet.
1. When someone tries to tell you how they feel, just be quiet.
2.When everyone is talking over each other, just be quiet.
3.When somebody won't let you finish, just be quiet.
They don't want to listen anyway.
4. When you're searching yourself for an answer, just be quiet.
5. When you're experiencing a beautiful moment, just be quiet.
@SpartanAscendi1 I bartend at an American Legion in ME. Avg member age at the post is probably 60-65. Out of the 25-30 regulars, I know specifically of a dozen of them that rent. Mind blowing to hear of retired folks renting.
One of them has 2 (beautiful) motorcycles and is a crane operator.