From kindergarten onwards we need education to strengthen inner values not just pursue material goals. We need to introduce emotional hygiene, much as we teach physical hygiene. This way we can address the problems we face, in the hope of making this a century of non-violence.
My advice, for what it’s worth: try not to be distracted by the faintly discourteous, the mildly incompetent, the harmlessly obnoxious. Roll with the delayed trains, dropped litter and misused apostrophes. Save your powder for the truly malevolent creatures now stalking the land.
“Few people know how to take a walk. The qualifications are endurance, plain clothes, old shoes, an eye for nature, good humor, vast curiosity, good speech, good silence and nothing too much.”
—Ralph Waldo Emerson
Okay so why is everyone at X behaving like it was a news to them that many men and women in Pakistan hv relationships before marriage and they hide their past from their spouses? If they are faithful to their spouse, Allah kept their perdah, then who are u to judge?
Janitor's wife (hindu) passed away. Someone shared the news in office group. A colleague said 'Inna lillah' another one said 'May her soul RIP', I said 'Amen'. Now we are all labelled murtid, kafir and asked to take fatwa baraye tajdeed e iman aur nikah.