"Is sex expected by the 3rd date?"
Womanese translation:
"Is reciprocal exchange expected by the third date?"
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Women have broken dating almost completely because they cannot understand or care for social contracts
Even when they completely understand the basic economic principle that if men are providing resources and lifestyle with the intention to begin a romantic or intimate connection, these women still choose to completely ignore that their choices should be reciprocal
Women are going into what should be basic, mutually understood and implied reciprocal exchanges of social dynamics with borderline-schizophrenic expectations or an autistic social dance that would make a complete autist blush
These women are either going out with men they have no genuine desire for and then being confused what is supposed to happen after a series of dates because their mutual desire for shared physical progression is non-existent for them at baseline with that specific man
Or
They are expecting that a third date, where the man is already probably funding the dates, is supposed to progress to him offering exclusivity or commitment as an additional concession to his side of social contract before she ever has to give any kind of reciprocal and mutual good faith exchange to the dating process
The sheer autism and schizophrenia of the average woman in the dating market is rather astounding.
They are labeling men as bad daters and as though men have no idea how to date because they themselves have a dating strategy that is devoid of basic relationship econ 101
The solution would be for them to stop going on dates at all with men they are not genuinely attracted to or at the minimum, stop granting a second date to men they don't want to physically progress with
Because at best this is sheer autism and bad girl game and at worst a one-sided social dance to extract full buy-in and concessions from a man before she even delivers any buy in herself that his dating efforts will result in intimacy. Intimacy is a basic, core requisite element of a romantic relationship and what differentiates platonic meets from courtship.
While people's timelines for first intimacy in dating varies based on logistics and time constraints, it is still a basic economic expectation that continued resources and dates will lead to eventually intimacy.
A first date is generally a vibe check and initial screen. While it can lead to more that's the purpose of a first date
A second date is more or less confirmation that impressions from the first date are stable and reliable across time, and that the person you met on the first date is still the same person on the second date and that no immediate deal-breakers or other disqualifying information arises on the second date.
At that point, if sex hasn't already happened, any subsequent dates, third or otherwise, are no longer confirmations that you wish to keep seeing someone but rather how it is going to progress into something, whether it is something casual or serious.
But the core social contract is that anything past the second date is supposed to be a progression and evolution of an already accepted mutual desire to continue seeing eachother whether it's stated or not
When women don't understand this it is sheer autism and men are rightfully justified in terminating further dates when women don't accept the social convention that the third date is inherently an intimate concession.
After all, the man is generally conceding time, resources, and baseline commitment to help seeing her by the third date already and fulfilling his checklist
The only thing left to concede at that point is physical escalation because it's the only part of the social exchange left that hasn't been fulfilled if they haven't had sex by then already
So yes, sex IS expected by the third date.
And it should be.
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