I bet every time you’ve victim blamed a woman and said, ‘why didn’t she just leave?’
You hadn’t considered ‘incase he ties up her and her family and kills them all with a crossbow’, as one of the options.
We know for most women, the most dangerous moment in abuse is when they try to leave. You are most likely to be seriously attacked or killed as you leave, or just after you leave.
That was certainly true for me. Twice. One time resulted in lifelong injuries. Both resulted in police investigations and arrests. Just from choosing to end the relationship.
So next time you learn that a woman is stuck in abuse and can’t/won’t leave, maybe reserve your judgement and consider how much risk she knows she is at.
I’m told I’m not that technologically smart— After i would question his lies 😋 i spent every week i was abandoned learning counter hacking / OISNT finding his cyberstalking capabilities
This has got to be one of the dumbest attempted putdowns a narcissist has ever said:
"You're not really smart. You just read books and remember what you've read." 🤦♀️
What other dumb things has a narcissist said to you?
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I wish I could put into words how damaging this type of abuse is.. and the HELL of recovery… I am grateful I am starting to feel like the “ old me” from 5+ years ago.
@DrProudman#NarcissisticAbuse
This horrible form of psychological abuse has destroyed countless lives and left people confused and broken.
Most people don’t accept it until they’re the victim. Help spread the word and let’s save lives together. 🙏
After leaving a few weeks ago- my emotions to feel like a human— all that rage that was hidden for so long— is finally coming out. I’m joining a boxing club.
One of the basic human rights a narcissist takes away from you is the right to be angry with them. No matter how badly they treated you, your voice shouldn't rise.
The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.
Flying monkeys secretly enjoy the "games" and feel that same superiority vicariously as the narcissist. They gang up with the narcissist and target the victim one by one. Flying monkeys cannot stand up for what's right or moral, but they delude themselves into thinking they do.
@WhistleblowerNN@fbiwhistlestop I have a few questions regarding a fed WC case( not mine) - as the channels gone through (SA )up to this point in discovery we’re given several other examples of evidence from witness and could add more charges.
@CauldronCosmic @PredPandemic You are under no obligation to do so. For some of us who tried to warn the new supply, things didn’t go very well. I was threatened with legal action. They will find out the truth in good time… it’s inevitable.
This is so true, I can’t even count the amount of times he would give me things and then take them back. He took my engagement ring back multiple times and then if I went anywhere without it on, accuse me of pretending I wasn’t engaged! Wtf was I thinking 🤔 #classicnarcissist