At this point in my life, I have no desire for revenge. I wish people self-awareness, I wish them self-compassion, self-honesty, change, peace. Life must have been hard for them to behave the way that they do.
I think it’s disrespectful for people to pursue others when they know they are either not ready to or unable to match their level of maturity and integrity. pretending to be someone they aren’t and wasting people’s time to prove what, exactly? this goes for friendship too tbh
healthy friendships involve not agreeing with every decison the other person makes. they involve telling you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. it comes from a loving place of support for each other’s well-being. true friendships ground you, they don’t enable you
a rapist having more rights than the person who was raped and therefore became pregnant kinda feels like obvious insanity but maybe i’m missing something. just kidding. i’m not. that’s reality and it’s fucking insane.
Only thing I hate about falling out with people is the version of their story they go tell 😭 cous ima tell the whole truth even the part that make me look bad but people be LYING, telling half stories cous they need sympathy.