I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to experience life with you. "Taste this. Look at that. Hear this song." Over and over. Until you can't imagine experiencing life without them.
Stop treating housekeeping like a punishment. Put on music, light the candles, burn the incense, and romanticize it. You’re not cleaning the house… you’re restoring order to your little kingdom.
i never wanted anyone to fix me or solve my problems. All I ever wanted was to feel heard and understood, to know that someone recognized how painful my experiences were.
I’ll never forget when I told my man I had a long day and didn’t feel like talking. I just wanted to be left alone to decompress. He didn’t argue. He just said ok. About an hour later, there was a knock at my door. He drove 40 minutes just to drop off food, my favorite drink, and his hoodie. He said, “I know you didn’t want company. I just wanted you to feel cared for” and then left. And even now he still goes above and beyond to make me feel loved. 🥹❤️
dating someone who brings out your playfulness, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on the days you don’t feel lovable. it makes you feel so incredibly safe and secure. that safety only makes you fall even more in love.
The sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. Not just to love you, but to understand you. To know exactly how to show up for you. To recognize your silence and understand what your eyes say when your mouth doesn't. To remember the little things like how you pull away when you're overwhelmed, or how your smile sometimes hides a tired soul. It's not just about grand gestures; it's about showing up in the ways that matter. Being soft where life has been hard. Being steady when everything feels shaky. Because real love pays attention