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[Jnr. @Jnr099]

Unbelievable 😂😂

[Notes To Men @notes2men]

Dear Men,

Once you start doing these 12 things, you’ll naturally become more attractive to almost every woman you meet.

1. Give her space instead of chasing.

[Ozedikus Nwanne @Ozedikus]

If two people start a company and one contributes 90% of the capital while the other contributes just 10%, when the business starts struggling, who do you think is more likely to walk away first? Exactly, Now apply that same principle to your relationships

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

11 STREET OT EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW:

1. Know when to leave before trouble starts. If a place suddenly becomes too quiet, pay attention.

2. Loyalty is earned, not assumed. Just because you vibe with some guys in the neighborhood doesn't mean they've automatically got your back. Always be cautious, and never let your guard down.

3. If you're hanging out with friends or in a group, always take your drink with you if you need to use the restroom or step away for a few minutes. If you forget it and come back, pour it away.

4. Don't involve yourself in fights that aren't yours.

5. As much as you have to maintain your respect in the streets, don't come off as proud and pompous. When you see where guys are gathered as you are passing, always endeavor to shake, hail them, and exchange greetings.

6. Not every greeting deserves a long conversation. Sometimes be cool with people and leave it at just greetings: "Senior man, how far na? I greet you, boss. I dey loyal to your government."

7. Once in a while, always drop something for boys in the streets. Don't overdo it, though, so it won't turn into an entitlement. But you see those agberos, area boys, dash them money when you have it. Those boys will appreciate 1,000 naira and remember it as though you gave them huge amounts.

8. Know at least two routes home, and switch them up from time to time. Don't always use the same route where everyone knows you'll pass.

9. Don't walk around with both earpieces in at night.

10. If you are living in people's village, if possible, stay away from their girls. Even on your street, I will recommend you don't date any girl. You can always import girls. You can get yourself into unnecessary trouble by dating a girl one or two local guys have been pursuing unsuccessfully. Simply being seen with her may make them resent you.

11. As a girl, do not sleep with any guy in your neighborhood. Most of the time, they usually kiss and tell. Once you have slept with one, he will likely discuss it during one of the boys’ gatherings, and all of a sudden, you see different guys coming to ask you out. Everyone now wants a piece of the cake.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

Bro to bro, to avoid disappointment, anything you do for a woman who is not your wife should be something you can afford to lose and let go of. If you've never been told, "But I didn't force you to do those things for me," you may not fully understand this.

Don't invest in a woman thinking it will buy her loyalty or commitment. Whatever you do for a woman, see it as something you did out of generosity. Let it come from your genuine desire to do something nice for her, and don't expect anything in return. That way, you won't be disappointed.

The more you invest in a woman while she hasn't invested anything herself in the relationship, the more you should realize she has nothing to lose and can easily walk away. The person who has invested the most in a relationship is usually the one who gets hurt the most when it ends.

One of the reasons some guys even forgive a cheating girlfriend after catching her is because, when they think about everything they've invested, they feel they can't afford to let go. Some even go back to collect every gift they gave her during the relationship. Embarrassingly so.

What does that tell you? They were buying her all those things in the hope that she would stay loyal.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

My lovely wife has played her role as a wife and mother so well that, even if I cheat on her, I'll have no reasons to place any other woman before her.

I am so satisfied with her and I have so much peace in my home.

But I don't just trust my preeq.

End.

[Joy @Jakujajesusjoy]

Once a man stops correcting you

#jakujajesusjoy

[Cristiano Ronaldo @Cristiano]

❤️

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

One of the things I really like about women lately is that you don’t even have to ask them out anymore to get sex. All thanks to globalization. You can just meet a girl, you guys text randomly for some days and speak over the phone, and you ask her to come over, and she does, her mind fully prepared.

After the visit and the sex, she won’t even bother asking you what you guys are doing. The whole good vibe continues, and you both continue to see each other.

Any man who is still lying and fronting a relationship when all you want is sex is a coward. Always come correct; there are many women out there right now who are thriving under this arrangement. All they need is to find you physically attractive and like you.

Do not promise any woman commitment and a relationship when you obviously don’t mean it. Don’t go about hurting innocent women who are genuinely looking for something serious.

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

This is why monogamy is a big problem for men. Men’s sex drive is generally higher than women’s. A man has to wait for a woman to be in the mood before sex can even happen.

Then, when she is in the mood, he has to help keep her in the mood, set the atmosphere, and make sure she enjoys herself while also trying to enjoy himself.

If he reaches orgasm first, suddenly the sex wasn’t good because she didn’t finish. If she’s stressed, tired, angry, depressed, or unhappy, she’s not in the mood, and the man is expected to simply wait. His sex drive doesn’t disappear just because hers did.

So monogamy basically puts a man’s entire sex life in the hands of one person. One person’s mood, stress level, emotions, and desires can determine whether sex happens or not. That’s a lot of power to give someone over another person’s sexual needs.

Now I understand why pornography, OnlyFans, prostitution, escorts, and other adult industries are booming. They remove the waiting, uncertainty, negotiations, and dependency. Men are paying for consistency and availability, not just sex.

Yall act surprised by this, but if you create a system where one person’s sexual needs depend entirely on another person’s mood, eventually a market will emerge to fill that gap. That’s just supply and demand.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Imagine if he had invested that N300k plus other monies he had been giving to her at just 24. By the time he gets to 30, with careful financial planning and discipline, he would be prepared to be a husband and father.

Let me repeat:

Your girlfriend is supposed to invest in you and make sacrifices for you, while you invest and sacrifice for the future of both of you.

But lack of patience and foresight and the love for toto is taking a huge toll on you young men.

And greed has taken a toll on you young girls.

A young man who is just starting life deserves to be in a relationship. It's how he would find his future wife and the mother of his future children.

It's not a period for him to waste scarce resources.

It's a period of vetting, cohabiting, helping each other, and living a prudent or frugal life..

Then he starts to build his life brick by brick while you, the girlfriend, support him, while he also leads you towards the right path and in line with your future goals and aspirations.

Stop all these transactional relationships you people are doing..

They're unhealthy, and they create unnecessary entitlement, lack of focus and misplaced priorities.

You should have sex if you want.

But sex should not be sold in your relationship.

He would always spend on you, but it should not be seen as a compensation for sex.

How will he spend on you?

1. When you go on dates.

2. When you cohabit with him from time to time.

3. When he wants to get you gifts.

4. Then occasionally dash you money.

Not him paying for your rent.

Not him buying expensive phones, hairs, shoes, bags etc.

Not him paying for your school fees.

And certainly not him buying you sanitary pads or feeding your family.

And all his earnings must be legitimate.

This is what young people in relationships should practice.

Contentment, discipline, and reasonable financial planning and future ambitions.

By the time you keep at it, you'd be building a healthy relationship and setting the proper foundations for your future, and possibly, marriage.

You would have earned your place, and be proud of yourselves.

Make no mistakes; you will definitely make mistakes.

You'll fight, quarrel, and even curse at each other.

It doesn't have to lead to breakups.

As long as no red lines are crossed.

Use each fight, quarrel, or misunderstanding as a teaching moment.

Where you have to apologize, do so.

Where you have to be accountable, do so.

Where you have to be transparent, do so.

This is my gospel for you all, this beautiful wet morning.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

When a couple is TTC, they would see sex as more of a chore than for pleasure.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Deep missionary is more intimate than doggy.

Do more of deep missionary with your lovely wife, and more of doggy with your side chicks (if you have).

Even if you're doing doggy with your wife, make sure 7/10 times, you cum doing deep missionary.

I mean... When she wraps her legs around your waist that you can't hold back anymore.

And kiss her deeply while at it.

It's a good experience.

And it will continue to strengthen the bond that both of you have with each other.

And she will continue to prepare sweet and delicious meals for you.

Your neighbors, your friends, and her colleagues will not call her grumpy.

End.

[Ken_ @cknze1]

“Marry first”

But see wetin una dey marry keep for house.

It is well.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If my lovely wife leaves me today for any reasons best known to her.

You won't see me come online to cry.

I did not pay her school fees.

I did not pay her rent while dating her.

I did not buy her phones while dating her.

I did not give her money for hair while dating her.

I did not give her family shishi while dating her.

I did not send her tfare while dating her.

I did not halt my growth or career while dating her and even in marriage.

Everything that I have ever done for her, I did them because she invested in me and sacrificed for me.

And because she's raising responsible children for me and taking good care of me as her husband and father to our children.

So I'll not have any regrets that I wasted money.

Because I didn't put the cart before the horse.

And I'll co-parent with her in peace because she's a good mother.

I don't even mind willing some of my assets to her, even as an ex wife.

When I tell you that I am blessed by God with a wife, I am not joking.

I know who I married, and I cannot deceive myself for public validation.

She's not a perfect woman, but she's a woman that I have embraced her imperfections wholeheartedly.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Any married woman that says if her husband cheats, she would cheat back, has already cheated on her husband.

Either in marriage or while they were dating.

She just wasn't caught.

Pay more attention to what women aren't saying than what they're saying.

End.

[Zidyep Osborn @ZidyepO]

If your love, care or willingness to spoil your man only shows up after he does it first, then that’s not genuine love… that’s a performance.
A relationship shouldn’t be “I’ll do mine when he does his.”
Omo love is dead fr 💔

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Just as a man in GENUINE LOVE for a woman feels the natural urge to PROTECT and PROVIDE her, so does a woman in GENUINE LOVE for her man feels the natural urge to make his house a HOME.

Wherever there is argument/debate over these NATURAL roles, there is NO love or genuineness in there. Such a union is UNNATURAL!

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

This is why "deliberate commitment" is one of the 3 pillars of marriage.

It's also why I keep saying that women don't love men and they shouldn't.

It's why I keep telling men that love is fickle and financial strength, good and kind leadership surpass love, because love alone cannot sustain marriage.

It's why I keep telling women that any woman that says she wants to love a man is bound to make stupid and regrettable mistakes.

Men must go into marriage with "I can do it alone" mindset when it comes to finances.

Women must go into marriage with the mindset of "I am going to follow this man's lead & be his support system and not and enabler".

Everyone must know and play their roles and responsibilities.

They must do it with kindness, selflessnes and deliberate commitment.

Roles can be flexed, but they're never interchangeable.

Moreso, in Africa where we are predominantly punished by bad leaders and leadership, one must learn how to cut his her coat according to size, & minimize their risks.

It's not yet uhuru.

End.

[Joy @Jakujajesusjoy]

If you want to understand men better, study the nature of God.

This is what God and men have in common;

1. Hate pride
2. Hate murmuring and complaining
3. Love to be praised and appreciated
4. Loves people who express gratitude

Men are not complicated once you study the nature of God.

[Rahman osman @iamrahmanosman]

Shout out to my people out there fighting silent battles. Life can be tough and there are people showing up every day with a smile while there’s absolute horror behind the scenes. Keep going, life gets better