apparently also hindered your ability to have any sympathy for someone openly admitting they have a hard time with something. This whole discourse just shows how evil women are to one another lmao
@redbushtyrant@HashimotoKana90@punished_casa I implore you to look up the rolling stone fraternity gang rape story from 2013. it later came out the girl made it all up. People lie ALL THE TIME
the “““girl’s girl””” industrial complex has made it impossible to have reasonable and honest conversations about female friendships in a group setting like this
Stuff like this is basically Tumblr "and then everyone clapped" for groypers.
It never happened. We know it never happened. They know it never happened. They all pretend to celebrate that it happened anyway
@CatWomaniya@Neymar10730 the only people discrediting rape survivors are the women who chase after their rapist and intentionally keep them in their lives, then go write articles about it
@lncelKing@NitGreat@thedimitri they literally are lmao. they talk about women the same was as men who think if you aren't chaste until marriage you become damaged goods.
fun fact: women can be losers too!
@hilosfemi2@DNashayP why are you making up a scenario in your head to get mad at? it's like you have male porn brain and are coming up with new ways to degrade women, and its weird.
the idea that men are more accepting of neurodivergent women than women is misogynistic bullshit. the only reason men, on average, might be nicer to you as an autistic woman is because you're easier prey.
They are giving her so much heat in the comments, but they're just proving her point: women are very critical of other women's social faux pas, even when they would not be as critical of a man being equally insensitive or worse.
Every woman I've had as a boss or bestie confirms this. They are much more judgmental, because they hold themselves to impossible standards that they expect me to meet, and then tell themselves that this is simply the reality for women. Sure, all the most toxic bosses or friends I've had have always been men, but so have the most understanding and supportive.
And she's right: if you do not have a strong, supportive relationship with your mother, who herself has a lot of female friends, you will miss out on so many social touchstones of the "sisterhood" so you subsequently come off as clueless and weird to other women. My mother was an unpleasant person who hated me and had acrimonious relationships with her own friends, what little of them she had, and constantly talked shit about them to me.
I had to learn how to be a female friend all by myself, and I was bad at it. All my closest friends in high school and college were men. Until I met my roommate (we are now platonic life partners forever), I really never had a female best friend, because other women just did not like me. It wasn't that I was super unpleasant I was just... too male in my mannerisms because I was pretty much raised by my father, had two brothers and no sisters, and only had male friends growing up.
Women did not take me under their wing and explain to me how I was doing female friendship wrong. If I pissed off a male friend, they were way more direct. To this day, I still step on toes in my wider friend group with women more than men. I've learned some of it was I was being insensitive, and got better (even if I hate that men get a pass and I do not). But a lot of it? It's because women are just plain meaner to other women than men are, hold each other to unspoken standards, and think a request for an explanation is an attack.