@exxhibitj It’s not surprising. What is the point if you can have sex or get a girlfriend. Obviously they need to have self control and try and fix it in healthy ways. But this is no shock.
@NotUnderBondage@karenmitchell__@The_Exit_Code I don’t fully agree with this. Hurt people hurt others. I’ve known two narcs who had fluctuating view of themselves. Thought they were superior but pieces of shit at the same time. There is no “proof” or debunking. Because we don’t have a brain scan to prove it.
@NotUnderBondage@karenmitchell__@The_Exit_Code Their supply is making others hurt. Why? I’m still not entirely sure. But my thought is it makes them feel better about themselves. Much like a schoolyard bully beats others. If it were only about control, they could still get that by triggering positive reactions.
@NotUnderBondage@karenmitchell__@The_Exit_Code Agreed. While they do like limelight/accolades, control, their main motive it’s hurting others. Otherwise they’d mainly bait people into positive reactions. But most of their time is spent triggering negative emotions in people (anger, sadness, frustration)…
@celestialbe1ng It’s true though. A lot of women claim they like something just for optics or they aren’t self aware. “I like personality” meanwhile they are dating a sociopath who ignores them and is abusive.
@rebeccatrinidad@karenmitchell__ If you notice (except for the love-bombing stage in the beginning of romantic relationships) the try to elicit anger, sadness, frustration, grief. All negative emotions. Why don’t they get control or fill avoid by making people full of joy? Because they are sadistic!
@mitsughost@BeanSlushiee Straight women hate men because they go for assholes and get treated like shit and dumped. Straight men hate women because they only go for those assholes and leave the men sexually frustrated.
@easymonk99@aruvinchan FaceTime can distort faces making them look worse than they are imo. Also they’ll get the “ick” at any perceived awkward silence
@shygoblin@LisaFenDragon Because long hair can hide head shape and if it’s very long can hide big ears, weak cheek bones, etc. That’s entirely the point I’m making…
@aruvinchan@PizzaPosting I know I work like this. If an obese girl messages messaged me I ignore it or say one word response. If a mediocre one does I’ll chat but don’t want to meet up at the moment but keeping as an option.
@aruvinchan@PizzaPosting I think the ones who keep you on a string but don’t meet are keeping you as a backup option. The ones they have zero attraction they’ll just cut ties immediately. So when they don’t want to meet up, it’s cause they have other options and you’re not on the top of them.