we really need to stop acting like treating people as disposable is emotional maturity. the whole “i don’t care if we stop talking” attitude, especially towards people who have genuinely shown up for you, has always felt like a lack of depth to me.
Not wanting to live together (ever) is 100% a deal breaker for me. Y'all have lost your everlasting minds talking bout you want to get married but live in separate houses.
They never mean pay for dinner, send you money or anything generous/thoughtful, just like him. Just like him only means texting mad niggas and being a hoe and shit, that’s where it stops