I don’t think fans realize how detrimental these deviant servers are. He’s not a character in your smut. Go get some help, I don’t care if it’s a subculture.
Dolly was allowed to have a larger-than-life public persona while still keeping her actual life private. Her husband stayed out of the spotlight, her marriage remained largely theirs, and her philanthropy is rightfully remembered as genuine. Michael kept most of his dating life private too, yet that privacy was constantly treated as strange, suspicious, or proof that something was ‘wrong’ with him. Even his marriage was called a publicity stunt, and documented charitable acts were sometimes treated like PR. It’s funny how similar choices are perceived depending on who does them.