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人类命运共同体 爱自由 爱生活 Love freedom and love life

[Crazy Vibes @CrazyVibes_1]

Her name was Wang Xiao, and at twenty-four years old, she was running out of time.

Doctors told her she had roughly one year left to live unless she received a kidney transplant. She suffered from uremia, a severe condition where the kidneys stop filtering waste from the blood, slowly poisoning the body from the inside. Her family had already been tested. None of them matched. Every normal option had failed.

So Wang did something almost nobody around her would have dared to do.

In 2013, she posted a message inside an online cancer support group. Her words were painfully direct because she no longer had the luxury of pretending.

She was searching for a terminally ill man with her blood type who would be willing to marry her and donate his kidney after his death.

In return, she promised she would care for him through the rest of his illness with everything she had.

“I just want to live,” she wrote.

Most people would have scrolled past the message.

One man did not.

His name was Yu Jianping.

He was twenty-seven years old, a former business manager and university graduate whose life had already been devastated by myeloma, a serious cancer affecting plasma cells. He had gone through a bone marrow transplant once already. The cancer had returned. His father had sold the family home to pay medical bills. A girlfriend had left after the diagnosis. Yu had quietly stopped fighting emotionally long before he stopped breathing physically.

Then he saw Wang’s message.

Their blood types matched.

He responded with remarkable simplicity:

“I can marry you.”

They met in a park for the first time.

And something unexpected happened almost immediately.

They liked each other.

One day during an online conversation, Wang suddenly disappeared for a while. Then she replied with dark humor that perfectly captured her spirit:

“On dialysis now. My arm is fixated. Here is a single-handed monster.”

She sent him a video from the dialysis machine smiling despite the tubes and blood moving beside her.

Yu laughed.

He later admitted he had not truly laughed in a very long time.

On July 16, 2013, they officially registered their marriage with a formal written agreement.

The contract was practical and emotionally detached on paper.

They would not live together.
They would not combine finances.
Their families would not know about the arrangement.

If Yu died and his kidney matched, Wang would receive it. In exchange, she promised she would care for his elderly widowed father for the rest of the man’s life.

It began as a survival agreement between two people who believed death was approaching.

But life complicated the arrangement.

Wang started accompanying Yu to hospital appointments.
Yu cooked soup for her after dialysis sessions.
They walked hospital corridors together.
They joked about sickness and death with the strange humor people develop when they genuinely understand mortality.

Without realizing it fully, the contract slowly became love.

Then Yu needed another bone marrow transplant — one his family could not afford.

Wang refused to stand still.

She opened a small flower bouquet stall on the street. Beside every bouquet she placed handwritten cards explaining their story: two sick people trying to save each other one day at a time. Customers returned. Strangers spread the story. The tiny stall slowly became something much larger through simple human compassion.

Eventually, Wang raised around 500,000 yuan — more than $90,000 — for Yu’s surgery.

And then something almost impossible happened.

Yu’s condition stabilized after his second transplant.

Meanwhile, Wang’s dialysis treatments began decreasing. Doctors told her she might not need a kidney transplant after all.

The two people who met expecting death were somehow both still alive.

In February 2015, they held a real wedding celebration with friends and family who finally learned how their relationship had truly started. Not as a romance at first, but as two desperate people trying to save each other.

Their story later inspired the 2024 Chinese film, which won multiple national awards. Today, Wang and Yu run the “Yongsheng Flower” shop in Xi’an — built from the same flower stall Wang once used to raise money for the man she believed she would someday outlive.

People often describe stories like this as miracles.

And maybe they are.

But what makes this story feel unforgettable is not only that two sick people survived.

It is that Wang Xiao refused to surrender her sense of agency even when almost every normal path disappeared.

She wrote down exactly what she needed.
She asked honestly.
She found another person who was equally broken by circumstance.
Then they slowly gave each other reasons to continue fighting.

The kidney was never donated.

Because in the end, neither of them needed it.

They were too busy learning how to live.

[蘋果派 애플파이 ❤️‍🔥 @applepiehouse]

我一輩子都忘不了，剛生完孩子後，醫生對我說的那些話。

醫生說：

「剛剛排出來的胎盤，是母親身體的一部分，也是為了孕育寶寶而存在的『器官』。」

生產結束後，醫生很平靜地開始說明：

「而那個胎盤完成任務、從身體裡剝落下來，也就代表——」

「現在，媽媽的子宮內側，正裸露著一個跟胎盤一樣大的『巨大傷口』。」

那一刻，我完全說不出話。

醫生接著說：

「請你們想像一下，如果像胃、肝臟那樣的器官，被硬生生從身體裡剝離，會變成什麼樣子？那當然是重症，對吧。」

「產後的身體，其實就等同於需要好幾個月才能痊癒的重傷。」

「惡露不是月經，而是從內臟傷口流出來的血。」

接著，醫生看向我的丈夫，對他說：

「您的太太接下來，是要用一副像剛遭遇交通事故般的身體，在幾乎無法好好睡覺的狀態下餵奶，並且守護寶寶的生命。」

「在這種狀態下，對太太說『飯還沒好嗎？』『家事怎麼沒做？』，就等同於對一個因重傷住院的病人說：『來照顧我。』」

病房裡瞬間安靜了下來。

最後，醫生這樣說：

「現在，您的太太需要的，不是『做家事的角色』。」

「她需要的是，為了讓身心恢復而不可或缺的、絕對的休息。」

「丈夫先生，請不要抱著『我是在幫忙』的心態，而是要有『接下來由我來撐起這個家』的覺悟，去保護您的太太。」

聽見那些話的時候，我才第一次真正明白：

生產不是「孩子出生了就結束」。

母親的身體，是從那一刻開始，一邊拼命修復已經被重創的身體，一邊立刻進入 24 小時育兒。

這個世界上，有太多這樣的故事：

「明明才剛生完，卻因為動得太多而倒下。」

「硬撐著繼續做家事，結果更年期症狀變得更嚴重。」

可是實際上，產後女性常常連自己到底已經勉強到什麼程度，都分不清了。

寶寶一哭就要起來。

要餵奶。

在睡眠不足的狀態下迎來早晨。

可周圍的人卻還是若無其事地問：

「衣服洗了嗎？」

「飯呢？」

「家裡怎麼沒整理？」

但事實上，剛生產完的女性，是必須休息的重症患者。

[Lucky007 @June_3923]

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[Ateolog @AteologX]

Başka hiçbir dinde, eşine bu şekilde şiddet uygulanmasını meşru gören bir anlayış görmedim.

[Mario Nawfal @MarioNawfal]

A crab watched his wife get grabbed by a fisherman and said: not today. Walked out of his hiding spot, wrapped his claws around her, and just... held on.

The fisherman let them both go and gave him a fish.

Bro got the girl AND a free meal.

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A 44 year old man shares his trick for reducing nasolabial folds

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[All day Astronomy @forallcurious]

🚨: Chinese biologist Hongmei Wang seeks to extend women's fertile life by making menstruation occur every 3 months.

Which would theoretically preserve more eggs and extend the fertile period.

[Luckylab_Vicky @Vicky22955256]

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[Crazy Moments @Crazymoments01]

This is how this horse reacted to protect its caretaker during an earthquake in Japan.