La pornografía bloquea tu vida.
Oras. Trabajas. Suplicas.
Pero nada se mueve. Le pides a Dios. Pero los resultados no llegan, pero llegaran.
Aquí está la razón:
If u got parents that’ll let u stay with them that’s even more of a reason to go get yo own spot but can not grow as a person under ur parents roof. Especially if you a man
@joelampton_ I have the worst possible combo I’m very handsome but sensitive and scared inside. And every guy tries me every where I go cause they see me as competition especially at work. Everyday is draining for me. And I get gawked at in public and I fucking hate it
If you've been stuck in hardcore PMO (porn, masturbation, orgasm) for years – like multiple times a day, edging, extreme genres, the whole cycle – your brain's chemistry gets wrecked in ways most people don't realize.
Let me break it down.
What happens biologically:
Every time you orgasm, your brain releases prolactin. That's the hormone that makes you feel "done" and relaxed. Normally, it spikes and then drops.
But when you're doing chronic, compulsive, high-intensity masturbation for years? Your prolactin baseline can stay elevated. Not tumor-level high, but above normal.
And that's where the real damage starts.
Overthinking & rumination – High prolactin lowers dopamine. Less dopamine = your brain gets stuck in loops. You replay conversations, obsess over tiny things, can't let go. It's not just "anxiety," it's your brain literally losing the ability to switch off.
Stress & anxiety – Prolactin directly raises cortisol. You're walking around in a low-grade fight-or-flight state 24/7. That's why you feel wired but tired.
Hair fall – Yes, prolactin can push hair follicles into the shedding phase. Combine that with high cortisol and low nutrients from poor lifestyle, and you get thinning hair even in your 20s.
Dull, lifeless eyes – High prolactin affects tear production and eye brightness. Plus low dopamine = no "spark." You look dead behind your eyes.
Puffy face / moon face – Prolactin causes mild water retention. Add cortisol fat redistribution and poor sleep, and you get that bloated, puffy look even if you're lean.
This is not "in your head."
These are real endocrine changes from years of hardcore PMO. The guys who quit and suddenly look better, clearer eyes, sharper face, less anxiety? They didn't just "gain confidence." Their prolactin dropped and dopamine recovered.
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