@Ceejayytff While it is true that queer people face unique social complexities when navigating attraction in a predominantly heterosexual world, the standard for not committing sexual harassment remains identical for everyone, regardless of sexual orientation or gender.
@KellyVariste@Ceejayytff Nobody is obligated to welcome unwanted advances or tolerate boundary violations. My ? was whether the reaction would have been the same regardless of gender. At the time, the post didnโt mention a boundary been established and then crossed which significantly changes the context
@Ceejayytff I was not defending him violating your boundary, though that wasnโt mentioned in the original post. Without the context that a boundary had already been established and then crossed, it raised questions about whether bias or prejudice could have been influencing your reaction.