Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about alignment, meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
The logic is simple.
When I was single, I was covering my bills, cooking for myself and I cook very well, sorting my home, organizing my life. I am a very organized person. Yomyom swears I have OCD, but I don’t. I just like my place neat and organized. I’ve always had peace in my life.
Why would I now enter relationship where I’m just there to carry burden while you just relax? Why would I enter a relationship and my life was better when I was single? You’re coming into my peace. You bring your own income and your values and we scale up together. If I wanted to adopt kids or run charity, I know how to go about it. Relationship and Marriage are responsibility. You devote all of yourself to your partner and your relationship, and your partner does same. No exception! If you’re the only one giving, it is not a love story.
To love is to give love and to receive love.
- Chimamanda Adichie
Some of you will get ₦50m and immediately rush to buy Benz.
Relax.
Buy a Camry → ₦15m
Buy 3 bank stocks → ₦15m (enjoy div)
Lock 20m at 20% APY → ₦343k monthly
Your future self will hug you.
School won’t teach you this. I will.