When ever you want to see how beautiful and handsome that person is...wait and watch them in Amidst of any situation that does not concern them,...How they mind their Business...
Yes thats the Beauty📌
While at Cambridge some years ago, I met Ugandans who were studying there - genetics, crop science, development studies, education, etc… I have kept contact with many of them. Some are in Uganda. Some returned after their studies but later left to other countries. Some never returned. The last two categories, were especially those who had solicited their own funding. On return, many struggled to fit in. Others felt that their expertise could not shine in institutional cultures of mediocrity. They were frustrated by mediocres - who tend to be the majority.
When a country adopts mediocrity, everyone is put at risk. Technical people (if employed) are supervised by clueless powerful relatives and friends of some above who ultimately determine what gets to be done or not. Scholarships at big universities that would have facilitated the best brains to think and innovate for the country end up being taken by their average relatives and friends - who return to mess things. Even when the cream succeed at getting scholarships on their own, they hardly find opportunity to shine - as the connected mediocre take first priority.
I have taught many students who only returned to university for papers (sometimes a BA) but were already occupying big offices. In class you would at times listen to the quality of their submissions and only wonder where such brains can take the country, yet they’re in charge! They are running things, with untold arrogance!
Countries that care where they want to go are very deliberate in selecting talent and utilising it. It is ideas that move and change the world - and that is our key deficit. Yet even the few good ideas are messed by the mediocres in offices. I imagine that if the first visit to the moon were to be in Uganda, certain people would still have insisted on fixing in their relative. A combination of putting clueless people in critical positions plus our breakdown in integrity is just but a sure way to national decay. Third world cancer - people who not only lack progressive ideas but they are also thieves.
This delusion is why a lot of you ruin good relationships, hurt good people who come into your life and will remain single, probably forever because you think he/she is out there. Jordan Peterson still goated
Marry a Woman who wants to settle and get married not a woman who wants a wedding.
The scripture didn't say he who finds a woman. The scripture says He who finds a WIFE. There's a big difference between a woman and a wife. Find a wife, not a woman
Thanks, Hon Phiona Nyamutoro 🫂
Listen to your husband!!
Seek his advice in all decisions!!
When you work and get paid come home and be open to him and say:
“Mwaami I worked on this consultancy and I have been paid this money. What do u think we should use it for?”
Most good men don’t want anything to do with ur ka money but they just want to audit your account so they won’t be caught off guard with “inflation in the home”. Be honest and open. Don’t just come home with a new car 🚘 and expect a man to just ignore and not ask questions!!
A man who feeds u deserves to know who has paid u , how much they’ve paid u and what u did for them!!
When u follow these rules without mawagali you’ll see life moving on smoothly!!
A very powerful prayer to pray - LET THERE BE LIGHT !
Genesis 1:3, John 1:1-5.
A little over a year ago, one of our dear sisters and leaders in church was pregnant with a baby after a long wait . It was such big news to us. And She had to go abroad for her delivery due to the sensitive nature of the pregnancy.
She put to bed
but a fierce battle began. We kind of sensed it was going to be tough so we started praying. She began feeling some unexplainable pain. The medical team made up of some of the very best in the UK, could not figure out the cause of the pain. They deployed some of the best equipment and gadgets, medication but could not address this pain. Her organs began to shut down. We organised a 24 hours prayer watch in church over zoom and reached out to a few minister friends to join with us in prayer. But It just won’t shift. At a point, this medical team finally admitted they had done their very best and knew nothing else to do. At this point, I knew it had to be GOD and GOD alone. Then I had a moment of light ! 💡The word came. “LET THERE BE LIGHT” - I knew by the Spirit that was the key. Then we changed our prayer point and just called out for the light of God to shine and expose the darkness. A few hours later, the doctors decided to go in just one more time. But this time, Lo and behold, they found hiding somewhere in her stomach area, in our sister’s words “a blood clot measuring about a litre” - something their machines could not locate. This was clearly the work of darkness. But then the light shone and darkness could not hide.
”And the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.“
John 1:5 NKJV
Can I pray for someone reading this now, every work of darkness in your life right now is exposed by the LIGHT OF GOD’S WORD. I declare, LET THERE BE LIGHT ! In Jesus’ name.
Banange someone start a space we plan tomorrow properly. Ideas are killing me.
For example I think short and light skinned people should be on the front line 🤝
Today, I met Sharif, @SafeBoda driver in Bukoto. He lent me his jacket, glasses, and headsock. Such incredible kindness and service! On our way , it started raining heavily, so I told him to park Somewhere and we had tea together.🤗 Thank you, Sharif. I hope we cross paths again.