@mom_of_littles One comment said men have a mental load too of remembering oil changes, and moving ahead in their careers. Sorry but as a working mom, I ALSO have THOSE things as well. Why can't dad share the parenting mental load? Can he only handle his own and not any of his kids?
@mom_of_littles It's not just doctors appts & gifts. It's packing your own clothes for vaca & all of your kid's items. It's coordinating activities with nap times. It's knowing when your toddler last pooped, and how much miralax to give & when. Those are PARENTING things, not just mom things
@wife2sirhusband Yes, we have two hampers at the end of our bed. Not hard to understand lol he does his laundry, sheets/towels, and 90% of the time our kids laundry, who also reach have their own hampers. I do mine separate because I prefer to.
@mandalynns23@BigBenInLondon I mean that's an issue for you and Aunt Sue, not bride and groom. Would you not get them anything? Not even a card with cash? If you're giving cash, registry can be ignored. Old folks like giving actual gifts though
@misorigeneseu@Dogula66@MrsCMFrancis SIDS is not the same as suffocation. SIDS is the sudden, UNEXPLAINED death. Suffocation is suffocation, which is not unexplained
@therealjayber She could somehow squeeze in dinner? You realize having dinner and going back to your place have two different end times right? And she's gotta eat dinner regardless. ๐คฃ
@ChoktawBingo @MaxLethe69@maryarchived Yea they could sue you for the unpaid debt. Then if they get judgment against you, that can def have a negative effect on things.
@aander1987@Parkerlawyer And are you really trying to argue that its unfair to expect a father to know his child's allergies? Their fav foods? Has he never sat down at a meal with them? Friends names...does he not ever listen to them talk? Yikes. Doctors names? Can he not handle taking care of them?
@aander1987@Parkerlawyer Yea I do know those answers, because we communicate. We discussed roof replacements together, because it affected OUR house and OUR finances. WE decided when to get a new roof, and who to use. Same with our AC system, fence around the yard, etc. And he knows our kids stuff too
@AAC0519@JamesEsses Or they're just signaling whether you should address them as Mr. or Ms. I find it helpful, given many names these days are "gender neutral"
@JamesEsses Nope. Their use of pronouns doesn't affect me, except sometimes in a positive way to avoid asking to speak with a Mr. Someone, when they are in fact Ms. (Unisex type names like Jaime)
@MattWalshBlog The thing is...if a parent at a nearby table gives their kid a tablet, it affects me like... not at all. Crazy right. I usually pay attention to my own meal instead of judging strangers. Maybe it's just me though ๐คทโโ๏ธ (and yes, my own kids are screen free at dinner)
@jaldy_@This_Here_Girl It's not extra money. Tenant pays agreed upon rent to landlord. That money now belongs to landlord, outright. Landlord can do what they want with it. Gift it back, keep it, donate it, etc. It's landlord's money.
@cathannp@woomfnpig24@jaldy_@buttonhatesyou@wtflanksteak Um, once the tenant pays it to the landlord in the form of the agreed upon rent...it's not the tenants money. It's the landlords money to do what they want. Gift it or keep it.