@shadowlilyyy I mean, it depends on if you want separate labels for romantic and sexual attraction.
Sexual? If you also like men or others, I'd say bisexual.
If you're romantically only into men, then you could say heteroromantic
So heteroromantic bisexual.
Depending on your own gender that is
Shut the fuck up you stupid dumb fucking troll.
Lesbian means woman loving exclusively women.
There is no room for men in any capacity. It's the single label that doesn't include men, SO LEAVE IT THE FUCK ALONE YOU DUMB MALE-CENTERING LOSER
anyway shoutout to bi lesbians, i love y’all & your refusal to adhere binary existence. there are even more different queer experiences in this world than there are varieties of flowers & we might bloom in drastically different ways, but we all deserve to grow 🩵🫂
I've already distanced myself from the lgbtq community
It acts more like a GBQ community, like L and T are non-existent or need to adhere to rules that don't make sense.
I'm on my own, and I'm happy to exist in my own lesbian, women exclusively loving women, space
Honestly I think that actual lesbians are going to become more secretive about their sexuality / self isolate to avoid harassment from the rest of the queer community. If people thinking we don’t exist means that we’ll finally be left alone, maybe it’s for the best.
@moonlitbqt Unfortunately, when a small portion of a community is stupid, the rest of the internet focuses on that portion and makes them out to be the majority rather than the minority they are in real life
@ivieirl I'm curious about the mental part of it because I can read smut and sometimes get... wet?? I guess. But there's no part of my brain that tells me I'm aroused. The only hint is the wetness. There's a disconnect. Visual porn does nothing for me, though. Just grosses me out
ppl really want the lesbian label to not exist at all, they want it to have to include men to the point that there's no point in its existence and it makes me sick. u wanna pull and twist and abuse our label until it's unrecognizable and there's no place left for us
This whole "bi lesbian" discourse made me realise how even queer people don't fully accept or respect that lesbians aren't attracted to men at all. Even my gay cousin once told me he thought all lesbians have some amount of sexual attraction toward men
@An_Aria_Blooms In my own thinking, yeah, as a woman as well, I wouldn't want to have it be called "pegging" in regards to myself.
As I said, I'm aroace (and a lesbian), and I'm not into anal, but if I was in that situation, I would likely be very put off by that wording
@knifewoman6@An_Aria_Blooms In reading up on this, it seems that pegging is more specific to cis women topping cis men in anal sex
Kinda specific to a certain dynamic, I suppose.
So, it would kinda be a misuse of terminology.
The situation wasn't straight, so the correct term would likely be strapping
@utopicanthro@An_Aria_Blooms I've been informed of different terms for different groups, which seems to be a general consensus of:
Pegging is a woman topping a man anally.
Strapping is kinda for anyone but is often applied to lesbians and nonmen in either position.
Pegging is kinda straight, ig?? Not sure