How you court a woman has nothing to do with the outcome, but everything to do with you being a gentleman .
If it doesn’t work out , move on and charge it to the game. complaining about the money spent clearly means u shouldn’t be courting but focusing on yourself.
You know what's important during prayer?
Asking the Lord if there's anything hindering our prayers from being heard, then if He brings something to mind, we can receive His cleansing through confession. {1 John 1:9}
Normalise sitting yourself down and asking yourself WHY you’re in love with the person you’re in love with. What did they do to get you to that place? Sometimes it’s in our minds and we start romanticising umsangano
When you pray tonight…pray for the wisdom to know when and where to place your energy. It’s not that things aren’t going your way, the issue is investing your energy in the wrong things/people. Once you master the art of applying force in the right direction..things will align.