Let's stop sugarcoating it. Ghosting is rude. It's immature. It's selfish. And it's pathetic. I don't care if it's a friendship, a talking stage, or a relationship. Disappearing on someone who's been consistently showing up for you is not "protecting your peace." It's avoiding accountability and honest communication.
I don't think people understand... you can LITERALLY drive someone to a point of not wanting to be bothered with you at all, on ANY level. Whether it's a friendship, relationship, family, etc. It's only so much one person can take.
Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… All that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
celibacy becomes very easy for a woman when she realizes that there is literally no man worth being involved with if he isn't helping to improve her life and loving her correctly. she can go months on top of months, it’s really nothing.
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
life tip: don't always think you’re the reason for the way someone treats you. people will leave you feeling disrespected even when all you do is consider them in every situation. some people just won’t care about you the same way you do them. and that’s okay. detach.
this generation doesn’t know how to build healthy relationships.. we end up saying stuff like “i don’t owe anyone anything.” you do owe people something. you owe those you offended an apology. you owe those who gave you support, gratitude (1/2)
partners who aren't supportive of their gfs/bfs hobbies/interests confuse me because why would you romantically involve yourself with someone if you're not going to be their #1 fan in everything they do