The purest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you
When someone is gentle, soft & respects you consistently, that’s when your nervous system starts healing. That’s why some women (and men) have that special glow when they’re being loved right in a relationship. It’s not the love, it’s not the good sex. It’s the emotional safety
i don’t feel like i’m missing out on shit, i’m perfectly fine with being in my cozy little home with my candles and my blankets. the world has been a weird place lately.
SIS, before you start making your goals for 2023, make sure you become loyal to your word! don’t just write goals to be cute. handle that shit like you said you’re going to! commit to doing what you said you are going to do. quit PLAYING and DISAPPOINTING YOURSELF all of the time
have the uncomfortable and tough conversations. speak up and raise any concerns you may have. people who are willing to learn, adapt, compromise, take accountability etc. whilst having these talks with you are the ones to keep close.