Everybody ainโt welcomed to my house. Thatโs my personal space. Itโs where I lay my head, gather my thoughts and gain my peace. If you come to my house, itโs because I want you there. Iโve never been big on company because all company may not be good company and no negative energy will disturb where I reside.
If you're chasing closure, you're really chasing an illusion. Closure doesn't come from someone else's words or actions, it comes from your own acceptance and decision to move forward. Waiting for others to give you peace keeps you stuck; choosing to let go gives you freedom.
I will never reconcile with anyone who deliberately went out their way to sabotage or hurt me in anyway. This can be family, friends, associates, whoever. Once you show me who you are, I can't unsee it.
Honestly, if you know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.