The obsession with making someone regret losing you is exhausting. Some people just lose you and sleep just fine. You werenβt the main character in their story and thatβs perfectly okay.
Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too. So none of that means anything. A lot of ppl are terrible at repair.
How your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
Thereβs a theory called "The Last Meeting." Once you and someone you were once close with have completed your journey together and learned the lessons you needed, the universe ensures youβll never meet again. Fate quietly closes the door, making sure you never look back.
Imagine finding umsebenzi finally. Waking every morning to work and finally affording le mpilo that you always wanted!π―οΈ
Makusikhanyele sonke!π―οΈβ€οΈ