you absolutely do not have to be ‘fully healed’ to be worthy of healthy relationships or friendships. there is no such thing as ‘fully healed’, anyway. as long as you are self-aware, inviting in calm and mature connections can be a relationally healing experience in itself.
Only thing I hate about falling out with people is the version of their story they go tell 😭 cous ima tell the whole truth even the part that make me look bad but people be LYING, telling half stories cous they need sympathy.
Betty White divorced a man in the 40s because he didn’t support her career, chose not to have children at a time when that was unheard of, publicly told off racists in the 50s, championed LGBTQ+ rights, and had an eight-decade career.
“Legend” doesn’t begin to cover it.