Fuck being shy. Fuck being an introvert. Believe me or not, Strangers will make you rich. Start networking. Make small talk everywhere you go. You never know what kind of connections you'll create. Closed mouths don't get fed, bro.
@kenkenlewu we get into situations like this sometimes when we hold on to resentment and grudges for so long. She should try to let go and forgive herself this time
My mother set a trap for my brother’s wife at the dinner table.
It did not go as planned.
She waited until she was comfortable. Fed. Relaxed.
Then she attacked.
“Ever since you people got married he doesn’t go to church like before.”
The table went silent. My brother suddenly became very interested in his food. The kind of interest that means please God do not let this involve me.(note that my brother was never the churchy type and my mom knew that)
His wife chewed. Swallowed. Wiped her mouth. Then replied playfully
“Mama, If raising a boy was hard, what do you think raising a man feels like.”😊
My mother blinked.
My brother coughed.
Someone’s spoon hit a plate.
Everyone Ate silently through the Meal😂
That girl is my favorite 😍
Last semester, a girl in my department finally got nominated for an exco position in our fellowship.
She was excited.
She had been serving faithfully for years.
One evening, the president asked her to see him privately.
She thought it was about the role.
But instead, he looked at her and said,
“If you really want this position… you’ll have to prove your loyalty to me.”
She didn’t understand at first.
Then he made it clear.
Her heart dropped.
She left quietly that day.
No arguments. No noise.
The next Sunday, she wasn’t on the exco list.
But she was in church… worshipping like nothing happened.
I asked her later how she handled it so calmly.
She said something I’ll never forget:
“I’d rather lose a position than lose my values.”
That stayed with me.
Not every open door is from God.
And not every leader represents Him.
Some people are using titles… to test your boundaries.
Choose your values. Every time.
Every time my sister’s baby woke at night, her husband got up, changed the diaper, and handed the baby to her to nurse.
It worked for them.
After my son was born, it became clear my husband was not built for middle-of-the-night duty. From 12–5:30 a.m., I was on my own.
But every morning he took the baby, let me sleep, and had hot coffee waiting when I woke up.
That worked for us.
There’s no one-size-fits-all in parenting, despite what 𝕏 discourse would have you believe.
In Abuja, anything can happen🙄🤪🤪. A side chick managed to become the second wife after the man legally married her. The first wife, feeling betrayed, filed for divorce and left. Later, she reconnected with her ex-husband as his side chick. 🙄🤪🤪🤪 Now, the man no longer stays in his marital home. He has bought a duplex in his ex-wife-turned-side chick’s name and is now living there with her and their children. 🤗🤗🤗🤗 Despite efforts to reconcile and bring her back, the ex-wife insists she prefers being a side chick, claiming it pays better than being a housewife. Meanwhile, the former side chick, now the wife, is crying 😭😭😭 and accusing the ex-wife of using charms on the man. 🙆🙆🙆🙆 Haaaaaa! 😂😂😂😂 Which kain wahala be this???? how do we respond to this ?🤔
The math of motherhood is actually insane when you break it down like this. 39408 minutes of carrying life while dealing with every physical toll imaginable is the ultimate sacrifice. Women really do build the universe while men just provide the spark. It is a reminder of why mothers deserve the highest level of respect and honor in our society.
Biology is definitely not a 50/50 split when it comes to pregnancy and childbirth. The strength required to endure those nine months of nausea and physical changes is unmatched. Respect to every mother out there doing the heavy lifting.
A man took his sick fiancée who was 3 months pregnant to see a doctor. She was admitted and managed for Malaria in pregnancy and threatened miscarriage.
The man went behind and pleaded with the doctor to help him terminate the pregnancy as he wasn't sure the pregnancy belonged to him, and that was why he agreed to marry her
The doctor gave the medication to a nurse to administer.
4 hours later, the woman had a miscarriage.
She suspected she was given an unknown medication before the miscarriage. She then confronted her fiance who confessed to what he did.
Now she's suing the doctor, the nurse and her fiancé for murder and attempted murder.
Inorder to save face, the hospital sacked the doctor. But the women is still insisting that sacking alone is not enough, that the doctor must lose his licence and she must be compensated financially.
Do you think she's asking for too much?
Do you also support that the doctor must lose his licence?
What should be done to her fiancé who initiated all this?
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