no shade, but i don't care to be in people's lives anymore. i'm pretty sure y'all noticed how distant i've became. i just don't got time for wishy washy ass behavior anymore & it takes nothing for me to never speak to certain people again
Be comfortable being the Villain, majority of these low self esteem parasites are depending on you being scared of being perceived negatively. I never gave a fuck.
after a certain age, it is literally your responsibility, no one’s else, to teach yourself the things you were deprived of, to unlearn and let go of all the toxic habits, because flaunting anger issues, being emotionally unavailable, and not being able to communicate your feelings seems like nothing more than an excuse. life is unfair to everyone in various ways, a little to some, a lot to others. you cannot spend your whole life whining and complaining about how cruel it was to you; the trauma inflicted upon you cannot be justified, but it is your duty to heal, grow, and feel safe in your mind.
being alone has always felt normal to me. even towards my family. i don’t seek constant closeness or attention. i’m deeply clingy when love is involved but the distance i can give someone is unreal
You can’t gaslight a skilled communicator with strong pattern recognition, intuition & discernment. You can’t convince them they’re the problem when you can’t even hold space for an uncomfortable conversation because you’re too self-absorbed to face yourself.