Men will always be the prize.
Before you find another him, he’ll find 10 of you.
All you need to do as a man is have a very good income, invest in yourself and have self respect.
When a woman truly loves and feels safe with you, she comes to you with her fears, and you discuss them. You map her what and why so you can empathise, then comfort, reassure, forewarn, discipline and mutually strategise before sending her on her way to defeat her demons. You're like a fuelling station for her spirit. She comes to you to power up, before you send her on her way to kick ass until she finds her way back to you once more.
old arabs used to say a woman should be below a man in four aspects or she might look down on him age, height, wealth and status.
And she should be above him in four
beauty, manners, righteousness/devoutness and morals
Barcelona fans still don’t get it, you can win La Liga 10 years in a row, no one cares.
Win the Champions League again then we’ll accept you’re the best
Finally understand why some people only date within their similar lifestyle and education level.
Being on the same wavelength intellectually and emotionally matters the most.
Why do you think women waited for the Industrial Revolution before fighting for the right to vote and work?
You think they didn't SEE those jobs? Coal mines were there. War was there. Digging ditches, building railroads, dying at 30 from hard labor…that was there for THOUSANDS of years.
They were QUIET. No protests. No "we want equal rights to work in the mines."
Then suddenly... factories. Offices. Chairs. AC. Typewriters. Safe, clean, indoor work that men invented with machines.
NOW it's "We deserve to work! We deserve to vote!" we are oppressed.
Feminism wasn't a random awakening.
It was a planned movement timed perfectly for when being a man stopped meaning hard labor and started meaning privilege.
They didn't want equality with men. You wanted equality with the REWARDS men created AFTER they did all the suffering
i’ll teach you the best time to buy products, so pay attention;
1. cars - dec
2. iPhones - sep to oct
3. TVs - jan to feb
4. laptops - nov to july & aug
5. electronics - nov
6. washer & dryers - sept to oct
7. grills & patio - aug to sept
8. indoor furniture - jan & july
9. gold - june to july
10. flights - feb to march & mid-week
most of you focus on what to buy but smart buyers also think about when to buy it.
look, cars get cheaper when dealers need to clear old inventory, phones get discounted when newer models arrive, TVs drop when retailers need room for the next generation, laptops get aggressive during back-to-school and holiday sales, i can go on and on
the same product can cost dramatically different amounts depending on when you buy it.
patience is a form of leverage.
you don't always need to earn more money to afford more things, sometimes you just need to stop buying at the wrong time.
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The desire for multiple women is the inability to find everything one desires in a single woman and thus the delegation of appetites to multiple (one is brilliant but disobedient, one is cute, but not so brilliant, one appreciates your darkness, but not your softness - another your poetic side, but not your ruthlessness)
Truly, what man seeks (knowingly to himself or not) is the fully embodied structurally coherent paradoxical feminine vessel that can properly appreciate, respond to and complement his full range of appetites.
And so polygamy is a substitution for perfection through diversification.
It is the acceptance of lower forms of love as fragmented aspects of the divine in different women, because the highest and most complete incarnation of it embodied in a single vessel eludes him.
The brain is designed to learn through constant repetition and active, hands-on involvement.
Through such practice and persistence, any skill can be mastered.
As a man I’m very close to mastering the art of letting women have their dramatic emotional swings and not reacting to every single one. 9 times out of 10 they calm themselves down and come back and apologize or they come back to normal and y’all’s interaction corrects itself