@vanderjoo@channelstv So, are we just throwing the baby out with the bathwater? Or is the cure for a headache to cut off the head?
Care to shed more light on the cost analysis of building the three cities?
Reread what you wrote. Does it still make sense to you?
Genuine confidence is load-bearing.
It holds weight because it's built on actual evidence.
What you've done. What you've survived. What you've figured out.
Grandiosity is decorative.
It looks like confidence from the outside
but collapses under pressure
because there's nothing underneath it.
The tell: how each responds to challenge.
Genuine confidence gets curious.
"Interesting — let me look at that."
Grandiosity gets defensive.
"How dare you question me."
The defensive response isn't protecting strength.
It's protecting the illusion from contact with reality.
Realistic appraisal is what makes confidence
durable instead of fragile.
In life you must be a warrior, and war requires realism.
While others may find beauty in endless dreams, warriors find it in reality, in awareness of limits, in making the most of what they have.
@oku_yungx If you disappeared for a month,
most people would adjust.
So build a life that doesn’t depend on being remembered
build one that commands respect.
@oku_yungx Well, you can love more than one person at a time, it all depends on how you're being treated.
I believe the heart wasn't meant to love just one person, but we still have lots of people who will judge you for this.