Is there anything quite as exhausting as people who insist they're inclusive and totally one of the good ones who demonstrate more and more in every reply that that is pretty clearly not the case?
@Jedellion both the history and the constant stream of marginalized people saying that this is a problem because "well, it doesn't match my experience".
@Jedellion must be bad for everyone" because I've also had some wonderful experiences and I've talked to plenty of people who have been lucky enough to only have good experiences. My understanding of this issue doesn't come from one isolated experience and it doesn't rely on dismissing