Oh sana it's time for God to manifest His glory in my life, to divinely intervene and pull through for me in ways that surpass my wildest expectations. This is my season to shine. Lord, show up & show off buthi, yintoni na 😭
Having friends that love doing things together when i’m the exact opposite is so funny to me. Like yes ndizokukhapha, yes i’ll run errands with you but mna andifuni ukhatshwa 😭🤚🏾
I hate that my parents didn’t give me an older sister to do life with, travel with, call in the morning ask about her plans and ask if she would like to do brunch later, I hate that I have to carry my burden alone.
This is true.
I was in a situationship and it broke my soul. I’ll never do that again. I took a shorter time getting over committed relationships than I did over a 2 month situationship.
I think what caused the deep hurt is that this person just wasn’t going to choose me, no matter what.
He didn’t lie. He did not manipulate me. He made if clear from the start and I was a little delusional and thought he will realize how great I am and change his mind. Didn’t happen.
Situationships are a form of self harm. It will damage your soul and you’ll question your own self worth. It’s a different type of rejection. It’s sort of a series of prolonged rejections. It’s like everyday you get rejected a little more as it reaches the end. 10/10 would NOT recommend. But, the heart wants what it wants. Take responsibility for your role and your own hurt.
My bestie is in a situationship right now and I literally get ptsd from the stories. lol
If you want to be respected, taken seriously, and included in rooms where life-changing opportunities exist, you need to do some honest introspection.
If you’re guilty of these things, especially 5, 6, 10 and 11, don’t be surprised when people stop including you in important things.
1. Don’t be the guy who sends people his account number without being asked.
Someone gets paid, buys something expensive, or appears to have money, and your next move is to slide into their DM with your account details.
That’s very weird. Get rid of that sense of entitlement.