Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍

[needcharlotte_ @needrestt_]

Charlotte’s being clear, bold, straightforward telling the public but means nothing to Engfa 😖

[heihei @be_happy1225]

（1） Sorry for using this tag, but after everything that has happened, I still want to express my thoughts and feelings from a fan’s perspective.

After watching today’s interview, I honestly feel even more disappointed than before.

I have tried to understand her perspective as an artist. I understand that she has her own life, her own feelings, and the right to decide who she wants to get to know or eventually be with. I have never believed that being a CP fan gives us the right to control her personal life, nor do I believe she should have to choose a partner based on what her fans want.

But I feel that this argument misses the entire point of why so many fans were hurt.

This was never simply about who she chooses to date. It was about what happened on September 12, how it affected the people who had been looking forward to that day, and how those feelings were treated afterwards.

September 12 was a day that many fans had anticipated for a long time. People made plans, spent money, travelled, and looked forward to sharing a happy moment with them. Yet, just hours before the main event, a situation unfolded that overshadowed what was supposed to be a meaningful day for those fans.

We cannot change what happened that day. But surely, we are allowed to talk about how it made us feel.

What makes this situation so difficult to move past is not simply the incident itself, but everything that followed. Instead of feeling that our disappointment was genuinely understood, fans found themselves having to explain why they were hurt in the first place. Some were accused of being controlling, labelled as antis, or made to feel that their disappointment meant they were not truly supportive.

So I want to ask: when did expressing hurt become the same thing as trying to control an artist’s life?

We can accept that she has the freedom to choose whom she wants to be with. We can accept that the relationship between two people may change over time. We can even accept that the future may not turn out the way we once hoped. None of these things mean we should have to pretend that the events of September 12 did not hurt us.

If she had simply spoken about getting to know someone, I genuinely believe the reaction from fans would have been very different. People might have had mixed emotions, but that would have been a different situation. What happened on September 12 cannot simply be reduced to fans being unable to accept someone entering her life. Doing so ignores the timing, the circumstances, and the reasons people were upset.

And this is why today’s interview was particularly difficult for me to watch.

Hearing her describe that person so positively and say that the statement was handled well does not, by itself, resolve the issue that fans have been struggling with. Instead, it leaves me wondering whether she understands why so many people were hurt in the first place.

From her perspective, perhaps the statement was sufficient. Perhaps she believes the situation has been dealt with and that everyone should now move forward. But a response can feel sufficient to one person and still leave the people affected by the situation feeling unheard.

What is especially painful is the contrast between the understanding and support being expressed towards that person and the way fans have been treated when they try to explain their disappointment. The other person can be praised, defended, and given the benefit of the doubt, while fans are told to accept the situation or leave if they cannot.

Why does understanding seem so readily available for one side, but so difficult to extend to the people who were hurt?

This is not about demanding that she condemn anyone or choose sides according to our wishes. It is about asking whether the feelings of the fans have ever been given the same serious consideration.

#englot #อิงล็อต

[heihei @be_happy1225]

（2）I also cannot ignore the fact that her partner has been affected by this situation. If respect is something we are expected to give her, then surely respect and consideration should extend to her partner and the fans as well. Respect should not become a one-sided responsibility, demanded from fans while their own feelings are dismissed.

Five years of support do not give fans ownership over an artist. I want to make that absolutely clear. But those five years were not meaningless, either. They represent time, trust, memories, emotional investment, and the happiness people found in supporting them together. Fans are not wrong for having cared deeply about something that became an important part of their lives.

And when that bond is affected by a situation like this, it is unfair to act as though those feelings can simply be discarded. Telling people that those who want to leave are free to leave may be true, but it does not address why they feel they have been pushed to that point.

The freedom to leave is not the same as feeling that your hurt has been understood.

It has been a month since September 12. Some people may say they have moved on, and perhaps they are genuinely trying to. But moving forward does not mean forgetting, and it certainly does not mean that the hurt will never resurface. When we hear responses that seem to overlook the reasons we were hurt, those feelings return. That does not necessarily mean we want more drama. Sometimes, it simply means that the issue has never felt resolved from our side.

What I find most disappointing is that, throughout this entire situation, I have struggled to see genuine consideration for the fans’ perspective. I can understand her wanting to protect her own happiness and the people she cares about. But I wish she had also taken a moment to consider the people who had supported her for years, rather than leaving them feeling that their only options were to accept everything quietly or walk away.

Perhaps this is where my feelings have changed the most. I can understand her as an artist, but I cannot agree with the way this situation has been handled. And honestly, there are moments when that handling feels selfish to me, because it seems that so much consideration has been given to protecting certain people, while the feelings of other people affected by the situation have received far less attention.

I am not asking her to choose CP fans over anyone else. I am not asking her to give up her right to love, to date, or to make her own decisions. I am asking for something much simpler: acknowledgement that the way a situation unfolds matters, that the feelings of the people affected by it matter, and that fans should not have to be made to feel unreasonable just because they are hurt.

If respect is what she hopes to receive from her fans, then I hope she can understand that respect also means taking the time to consider how her actions and the handling of a situation affect others. We should not be expected to offer understanding endlessly while feeling that none is being offered in return.

I can respect her choices and still be disappointed in her. I can understand her position without agreeing with her decisions. Those feelings can exist together.

And I believe that is what people keep misunderstanding about CP fans. We are not asking to control her future. We are asking for our feelings about what has already happened to be taken seriously.

Lastly, if anyone disagrees with my perspective, you are welcome to express your own opinion. I understand that not everyone will see this situation the same way, and I am not asking everyone to agree with me.

But throughout this entire situation, I have rarely felt that people have genuinely tried to see things from our side. We have had to carry the disappointment ourselves, while also defending our right to feel disappointed.

#englot #อิงล็อต

[Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍 @Kuromi1987]

@KoonDeexoxo No matter what, shouldn't have to do such bad and childish thingy. It's Rude and Disrespectful. 每天攻击来攻击去，有意思吗？专注于各自偶像，不是很好吗？

[Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍 @Kuromi1987]

@lutang960182047 一个搞到4 Element Infinite 所有粉丝伤心难过的浑蛋烂人，到头来被死老頭称赞，现在连当事人也称赞..莫名其妙

[Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍 @Kuromi1987]

@lutang960182047 这期间的起起伏伏，确实影响很多粉丝，尤其CP粉，我也是其中之一，我经历过FayeYoko的伤心失望，以为EL会以Happy Ending解散，结果.难怪Charlotte prefer to leave Bangkok, going back to her Phuket. Thai entertainment industry really Cruel and full of Hypocritical

[Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍 @Kuromi1987]

@KoonDeexoxo Omg she's so诚实, this live is after she attended the Merge event?

[gabs | @ddljsmoke]

Mano olha como a Charlotte olhou pra Engfa passando mdsssssssssssssss hoje alguém vai ser devorada e esse alguém vai ser a Engfa

[𝗮𝗻𝗲 @Its_47007]

Huhuhu lapit mona Kay Charlotte 🥹😭

#YokoApasra‌

[微醺小熊猫🐼Englot🇨🇳 @lutang960182047]

这种才能叫情侣戒指吧😏✨

就说明星带戒指本来就是比较随心所欲的装饰品，就从带戒指含义来讲，会带在中指还有热恋、已有恋人的含义，食指是期待恋爱的含义💍
带在尾指那种算什么？不是独身Single的意思么，笑死了，有人会拿这个来说事情…

Cartier Juste un Clou（钉子戒指）
寓意：把你牢牢钉住在我的生命里，认定彼此，不离不弃😎

#อิงล็อต #englot

[Sora 🏳️‍🌈 @Waratin2115]

𝚆𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚞𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚢𝚘𝚞’𝚕𝚕 𝚐𝚎𝚝 𝚊 𝚛𝚎𝚐𝚞𝚕𝚊𝚛 𝚑𝚞𝚐 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝙴𝚗𝚐𝙻𝚘𝚝 𝚒𝚗𝚜𝚝𝚎𝚊𝚍 𝚠𝚎 𝚐𝚘𝚝 𝙿’𝙵𝚊 𝚓𝚞𝚖𝚙𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚘𝚗 𝙲𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚘𝚝𝚝𝚎, 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚑𝚞𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝙲𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚘𝚝𝚝𝚎 𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚘𝚕𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝙿’𝙵𝚊 𝚠𝚑𝚒𝚕𝚎 𝚐𝚘𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚞𝚙 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚘𝚠𝚗 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚑𝚎𝚛. 𝚃𝚛𝚞𝚕𝚢 𝚊 𝚜𝚙𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚊𝚕 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚌𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚖𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗𝚝 𝚗𝚊 ✨

OCT MISS YOU ENGLOT08
#อิงล็อต #englot

[Maru 🇦🇷 @MaruEnglotinha]

Vengo a crear un rumor y delulear 😌 pero el piso de la historia de Char no se parece DEMASIADO al piso de la casa de Fa? Pienso cositas🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️

[Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍 @Kuromi1987]

@lutang960182047 继续吹捧🏸...恶心 🤮🤮

[Maru 🇦🇷 @MaruEnglotinha]

En ese live los celos de Fa por no reconocer su propio labial en el hombro de Char me mataron

[Wanida 🏡 @Toeytom2537]

กลับมาดูคลิปครบรอบ 4 ปีของคุณ วม เหตุการณ์ทุกๆอย่างอยุ่ในคลิปนี้หมดเลยเป็นอีกคู่ที่มีทุกรสชาตในชีวิตมากมีหลายเหตุการณ์ที่เหมือนจะต้องปล่อยมือกันเเน่ๆล่ะเเต่สุดท้ายก็ไม่ปล่อยมือก็ยังยืนคำนั้นว่าจะจับมือประสบความสำเร็จไปด้วยกัน🤍🤍

[EL Kohlarn💙 @EL_Kohlarn]

englot is englot 🤍 #อิงล็อต #englot

[Kuromi 🤍🌻 🫧 🐶 🐰 🤍 @Kuromi1987]

Wow what a Pic 📸 👍

#EnglotAnvs4Y6M*
*~•○ #อิงล็อต #englot ○•~*
#Engfawaraha
#CharlotteAustin

[พริกอ่อง ( 113🏡🐶&🐰 ) @Sugar_t32]

Anvs4Y6M... You for the laughs, the tears, and all the unforgettable memories we've shared,You two mean the meaning of home to many people. Thank you so much for your existence. 🏡🐶🐰🤝🏻

#EnglotAnvs4Y6M*
*~•○ #อิงล็อต #englot ○•~*
#Engfawaraha
#CharlotteAustin

[(っ◔◡◔)っ안녕하세요🦄💜🏳️‍🌈 @1904Taeny981]

รักอิงล็อต คิดถึง อิงล็อต วันครบในทุกวัน ทุกเดือน คือ วันสำคัญของพวกเราเสมอ 🥹
รักมาก 🐶🐰🤍

#EnglotAnvs4Y6M
#อิงล็อต #englot
@EWaraha @itscharlotty

[Apo lada🐶🐰“หึงชาล็อต” @apolada9309]

Anniversary ka

#EnglotAnvs4Y6M
#อิงล็อต #englot

[Koon Dee @KoonDeexoxo]

Fuck you, don't post anything if you didn't know the truth.

🌻: "But listen, I never left anyone first. I never left anyone first."

🫧: "P Faye once said that she never leave anyone first. It's true. She never did and Yo never leave anyone first too.

So who makes them leave each other? 🫵NINESTAR!!!

#FayeYoko
#FayrPeraya
#YokoApasra‌