It’s so funny watching women pathologise men for not liking them. A man can communicate with his friends and family, write academic papers, communicate at his job… yet you’d rather believe he can’t “communicate like an adult” when he clearly doesn’t deem you worth the effort.💀
[ORANGE FARM COP IN COURT FOR MURDER AND ATTEMPTED MURDER]
A 34-year-old detective constable, Elias Moeketsi Pinkoane, attached to the Orange Farm SAPS Detective Branch, is appearing before the Sebokeng Magistrates’ Court on charges of murder and attempted murder.
It is alleged that on Sunday 12 July 2026, at approximately 03:00, Pinkoane, who was off duty at the time, was in BK Lifestyle Cafe in Sebokeng, having arrived in a state vehicle. At or about the time the establishment was closing, Pinkoane and his partner went to buy gizzards, where they found three men who were also waiting in the queue.
An argument started after one of the men wanted to buy ALL the remaining gizzards. Pinkoane then went to the state vehicle, pulled his service pistol, and fired shots at the three men through the vehicle’s window before driving off.
As a result of the shooting, one victim was declared dead, while a second victim sustained injuries and was rushed to the hospital. The third victim survived without physical injury.
Spent cartridge cases were recovered, with one found at the crime scene and another later recovered inside the state vehicle.
The accused was later traced to his residence, where he was arrested the same day. He has since been charged with murder and attempted murder, and is appearing before the Sebokeng Magistrates’ Court.
SAPS disciplinary processes will also be instituted concurrently.
Another thing is that we don’t even talk to each other anymore. We don’t say hey you mis-stepped here or hey you misread this situation between us. We just write about you on social media now. We humiliate you.
Very tough conditions for openness and vulnerability those.
The hypocrisy of “should have spoken to us and not gave in to suicide” is only known by the victims
Because y’all aren’t as good as you think you are
You are not a safe space
And no, you wouldn’t have helped that person
Because when they do ask,
You subtweet them
Self awareness is exhausting because it ruins your own excuses. You can’t even ruin your life in peace anymore because you know exactly which old pattern you’re repeating. Ignorance is nolonger bliss,it becomes heavy responsibility.
If you are emotionally more sensitive than others, please do yourself a favor and date people who won’t judge you for experiencing emotions to the degree that you do. If your trauma has shaped you to possess great depths then date people who aren’t afraid to reach them.
we are in a cowardice epidemic. people avoid making any decisions at all. decisions are commitment and commitment requires the bravery to take responsibility for your desires. they would rather live in a state of possibility and ‘potential’ than run the risk of being wrong.
not dating to marry, not dating to break up, but a secret third thing (dating to enjoy being with a person you're compatible with for as long as you both enjoy each other, no matter if that's months or years or the rest of your lives)
For a long time, the narrative has been that getting pregnant 🤰 and keeping the baby 🤱 is trapping the man; but in reality it is the woman who is trapped.
My babydaddy passed away a Year ago, yesterday I used some of his ashes for a design to get my nails done. His Mama was angry at me for doing it but idgaf I had a kid with him, NOT YOU!