Wait until you discover that just because they can intellectualize their emotions & verbalize their toxic behavioral pattern back to you & sound intelligent while doing so — doesn’t mean they have any intention of putting forth the effort to make sure they stop hurting people.
Love forces you to learn more, to grow more. That’s why a lot of people sabotage their relationships. The moment they start feeling uncomfortable they believe that a relationship shouldn’t that way, that it should feel easy at all times, that your partner should bring you peace
Love feels fun. Love feels freeing. Love lights you up inside. Even through the disagreements. Love warms you. Love provides calm. I don’t believe it feels exhausting or like a cage. I don’t believe it tastes like regret.
i love sweet girls, girls that’ll send you the link to items they have. girls that compliment you and it be no weird shit behind it. girls that will promote your business like it’s their on. exactly why i’ll forever be a girls girl. 🫶🏽
Women crave so much softness because we’re carrying so much trauma. Women are tired of survival, of feeling used. A lot of women haven’t been given the opportunity to fully relax, to land in safe spaces, to experience true protection and safety from men
For a lot of us, we aren’t ready to let go of the person we were when with them. Not only are we grieving the death of a relationship we believed to be substantial — but we’re also grieving the death of a version of us we might’ve really liked.
I commend my ability to still see the good in everything that’s presented to me, but it’s different now because yes I see the good but now I know whether it is MY GOOD I’m projecting onto you or there’s ACTUALLY good in you.