Full transparency... I don't think l've ever experienced someone being deeply in love with me. I've been liked. I've been wanted. But I still dream about the kind of love where someone chooses me wholeheartedly every single day.
Dating is dead because everybody’s replaceable when someone new is one swipe away. People don’t fight for relationships anymore. They don’t work through problems, communicate through issues, or grow together through challenges. They just swipe, match, and move on to the next person when things get hard. That’s why nothing lasts and nobody feels secure.
dating is crazy bc no matter how i approach it i end up traumatized. take things slow & date with intention? traumatized. be more carefree & see what happens? traumatized. stop dating at all? traumatized.
the worst part about being vulnerable with the wrong person is realizing u told them things u can't take back because you genuinely thought u were safe
No one talks about how draining it is when your mood is constantly switching between 'its okay, I don't care, I'll be okay' and 'I don't know how much more I can take'
Maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. We all suffer from something. So, when you meet someone who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you, don't let something silly like ego and pride ruin it.