I am bringing this up again.
Family background of your spouse will play a vital role in your marriage. It will also play a crucial role in your child's development.
Their habits, culture, tastes, preference, beliefs, will certainly sneak into the marriage.
Never underrate the influence of genetic and hereditary traits.
Love alone is not enough.
Choose a family background you can tolerate.
One thing about this life is that it doesn't have balance. Some will be educated and never work, some will only work on contracts and nothing permanent, some will be married, some will never get married, some have got all the money but can't make children, some don't have money but God blessed them with children, some got all the money but they are suffering from different kind of diseases that stops them from eating whatever they want. In simple terms, be grateful for whatever is going right in your life, some things are beyond your control, and lastly, don't let the expectations and standards of the society control or put pressure on you. It's important to focus on yourself and stop comparing yourself to people around you. We are all destined for different things, and we were not created to have all.
80% of women escape poverty through marriage. 80% of Men also enter poverty through marriage. The same institution can be a ladder or a trap. Let that sink in.
Every person has his/her own way of committing suicide. Some just stop wearing new clothes, stopped caring about how they appear, stopped looking after themselves, some leave their study, some stop hoping again. Some just always play sad music.
Someone has stopped taking photos anymore.
Someone has stopped loving, someone stopped accepting luv. Every person has his/her own way of committing suicide.
If you're a giver, find another giver to give to. Walk away from one-sided relationships. Stop pouring into people who don't pour into you. Takers have no limits. Your boundaries and distance are their limits. Remember, the right people will value you the same way you value them.
Just because you don't like someone doesn't mean they'll fail. God isn't from your village. Stop thinking your opinion controls someone else's destiny.