YOU are responsible for building the life you want. You can’t look to another human being to create a happy life for you. You have to do it yourself. The moment you realize that you (& only you) are responsible for your own happiness...your entire life will change.
If you are holding on to someone who doesn’t want to be there...it’s more about lack of self-love than it is love. Let them go. And focus on loving yourself. When YOU love you, you won’t tolerate people who don’t.
The right one for you will love you right where you're at.
The right one for you will meet you at your level.
The right one for you will encourage you to grow.
That's how you'll know.
You will be too much for some people, and too little for other people. The good news is, these aren’t your people.
For the RIGHT people, you will be beautifully, wonderfully, perfectly ENOUGH.
Some people are gonna get real offended when you outgrow them. When you stop being the person they expect you to be. And that’s okay. Not everyone is meant to go with you to the next level.
When you are a strong, confident woman, you’re gonna intimidate some people. You’re gonna offend others with your mere presence.
The good news? Those aren’t your people. The right ones will always respect your shine. ✨