@Sonderisfon Because after everyone said the apple was a banana, I still said it was an apple and stood by it.
(Iykyk)
That experiment takes place in real life all the time, and I have, in fact, proved that I don't fall for that shit.
Yes. But I think it would have to be dealt with the same way we deal with men being accused of it. If there isn't any explicit evidence that the man raped her, then hes let go; but she does not automatically go to jail, unless they find explicit evidence that she lied on purpose too.
When I was a kid, I wanted people to encourage me to be myself and to COAX the "real me" out.
To reward me when I was being real, and coddle the real me when she was there.
Now, I just want people to shut up and fuck off if they can't handle the "real me"
'cause she's gonna be here whether you pussies like it or not.
It sounds harsh, but a victim will use reason to explain why they let themselves become a victim,
the same way an abuser will use reason to explain why they became an abuser.
At the end of the day, reasoning should be used as a tool for understanding, not an excuse for decision making.
Excuses are always why people get stuck in the victim / abuser cycle.
Excuses are why that special version of hell never ends,
because excuses never end.
Men need women.
Women need men.
Men deserve love.
Women deserve love.
Both deserve respect.
Both deserve loyalty.
Both deserve healthy relationships.
Not every man is the same.
Not every woman is the same.
Your bad experience isn't a universal rule.
Remember, We're not at war.
People who excuse and allow bad behavior because the perpetrator had a good reason,
Are people who do not understand that everyone in the history of doing bad things had a reason for what they did.
That includes every rapist, pedophile, murderer, serial killer, and abuser of women and children.
Just because you may not agree that their reasoning was good enough to make the decisions they made, doesn't mean that they had zero reason.
Clearly to them, the reason was enough.
Bad behavior is bad behavior.
I dont give a fuck if they were abused as a child, or if they're ego was bruised, or if they had a "bad day", or if they have some sort of mental problem.
Bad behavior... IS BAD BEHAVIOR regardless of their reasoning.
And it should be treated as such.
After years of going down rabbit holes, reading weird shit, questioning everything and probably frying my brain a few times 😂 I’ve come to one conclusion
Telepathy is real
Telekinesis is real
Remote viewing is real
Precognition is real
Clairvoyance is real
Astral projection is real
Synchronicity is real
Manifestation is real
Energy transfer is real
Intuition is real
Lucid dreaming is real
Out-of-body experiences are real
Déjà vu is real
Collective consciousness is real
Past-life memory is real
Teleportation is real
Time travel is real
Do I understand exactly how all of it works? Fuck no. That’s half the fun.
I just think we’ve been given a tiny little box of what reality is supposed to be, and most people never bother looking outside it.
There’s way more going on here, fam