If you're a lover girl, please get yourself a lover boy and vice versa. Leave these nonchalant, low key anxious avoidant types to their own devices and flourish.
A lot of the time, rising into your next level looks a lot like loss. Suddenly, everything that can’t come with you is gone. This is where your faith can be tested the most, trusting that all will be replaced with that which awaits you at your new level.
Truth be told, some people are so irreplaceable. The things they do, the way they go extra miles to get things done for you, the way they always support, the kindness they show, the feelings they had for you; you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.
Healing taught me that honesty pays. Speaking about your feelings won't lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won't scare off people who are meant to be in your life & being your true self won't cost you genuine relationships.
Having your own money changes the dynamic you have with the people in your life. From parents, friends to romantic partners. It gives you a chance to love and interact with them from a place of choice and not survival. Your money gives you options of who stays in your life.
Love yourself a little extra right now. You're evolving, learning, healing, growing, and discovering yourself all at once. It's about to get magical for you!
S/O to the girls who’s going after a new life. Just be patient with yourself and your journey. Remember that whatever is meant for you, won’t miss you at all. heavy on believing in God’s plan & timing. 🤍🧘🏽♀️✨
At times I find myself worrying about the future instead of appreciating the now. It’s terrible because I’m living a version of the future I once fantasised about. I have things I once used to pray for. I need to remember this whenever I start feeling anxious about ‘what’s next’.
acknowledging that you are a sensitive person is the first step. then realizing that you tend to react to things in a purely emotional state is the second. then reflecting on how your emotional reactivity makes you feel after it happens is the third.
I’ve came to terms with the fact that I really am allowed to feel however I want to feel about any situation, without anyone else having to understand why I feel the way I do.