@ask_aubry Hear me out. Her seeing him as a “father figure” and “safe” is not necessarily a positive.
Unsafe can feel safe if it’s familiar. And her father is also her abuser.
Don’t know if he is grooming but her understanding of healthy boundaries is very skewed.
@ask_aubry Girl run! And when you are far enough away, get tested for autism!
I have also hit myself when incredibly overwhelmed or being screamed at. It’s called a meltdown. You aren’t crazy!
@ask_aubry Hey I’m autistic and NONE of this is funny! I do struggle and say/ do socially inappropriate things. But I APOLOGIZE if I hurt someone and respect boundaries! The fact he’s done is repeatedly puts him high on the ASSHOLE SPECTRUM!
@ask_aubry I’m not just trying to brag but I think my husband and me do a healthy version of this.
When I need help I ask for my “big strong man” in a very exaggerated southern accent. 😂
He thanks me every couple weeks for “keeping the house going while he works.” (I do not work) 💕💕💕
@ask_aubry I think that if he tells her and apologizes, this was like a medium level fuck up.
If he keeps this a secret and continues the behavior….. or develops expectations on their sex life based on the ex. It’s AWFUL. Dump worthy offense!
@AlbumHatePod PPSODE suggestion - Gary Numan- Are Friends Electric?
It’s actually an AMAZING song, but the back story is somehow crazier than the stories YALL make up about albums!
@jerod_keevican@ask_aubry Seriously. This post hurts! My name is actually Claire. It’s cringe to realize my kid behaviors that got missed bc at 35…. Not just “weird” but autistic!
@galaxibrain444 I hate that term too.
If any ADHD folks disagree I promise this is a “me” thing.
I feel like I needed to work on my ADHD to unlock the autism.
ADHD to me is an annoying problem. Autism is like 20% of my being. In my soul! 💕