@_Starsabreep As a licensed professional, 30% TCA shouldn’t be used on Fitzpatricks 5-6. ESPECIALLY at home. Also, we shouldn’t be doing a chemical peel like that in (almost) summer. I hope he’s okay.
“The traditional man wants a woman 2be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women.”He's like an exotic bird collector, "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage” - Trevor Noah Born a Crime
I’m so talked out, im not addressing anything anymore. The answers you want are always in people’s actions. I no longer want an explanation as to why people chose to be weird when it comes to me. Your actions were enough for me to realize you’re not who I THOUGHT you were. Thanks
I love all of the different modalities of healing, magic and energy work that exist but sometimes I prefer to reach for the oldest, most reliable tools in the tool belt which are some good old fashioned tears and prayer.
@NkululekoMhlaba I have so many stories about this topic from personal experience and its as gruelling and both funny at the same time. If you ever find your self in white spaces, always be ready to be gaslit about things you have zero idea of.
I worked in an all-white company where exclusion was subtle but felt. I was the only one not invited to a colleague’s wedding, I saw by the fancy haircuts at the Monday Team Meeting.
Months later, two Black colleagues joined and we sat together in most team sessions.
CEO: “Mhlaba, are you forming a black caucus there?”
Me: “Black is needed in an all white assembly.”
Stared at him with my resting face and he flushed pink 😅