It Is What It Is!!

God's been faithful 🙌

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

When a father changes diapers, feeds the baby, gives baths, or gets up at 3 AM. He isn’t helping his wife, he is taking care of his own child and that’s called parenting.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

Love yourself a little extra right now. You're balancing so much, handling things no one sees, and doing your best. You deserve grace.

[E🎀 @ElsSaidIt]

I think iskhathi sami sokjolela imali sesfikile, uthando lunghlulile and nani nibonile

[✰ @whoisfolaa]

the loudest form of disrespect is realizing they were never going to tell you. if you hadn’t found out yourself, you’d still be living in the dark, trusting someone who had already decided you didn’t deserve the truth.

[Athi🤍 @byathiii]

Unrelated , but can we also normalise being kind to each other during arguments ? there’s literally no need to break my soul just so you can win the argument / vise versa.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

My 20s definitely taught me there's no point in doubling back on anything. No friendship, not a relationship, not a Job. Once it has ran it's course, move accordingly. It's your job to take the lesson, add it to character, and move on.

[Wilinfeels @wilinfeels]

I truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife. to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, fun, spontaneous God fearing husband.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Full transparency... I don't think l've ever experienced someone being deeply in love with me. I've been liked. I've been wanted. But I still dream about the kind of love where someone chooses me wholeheartedly every single day.

[Menace Rodman 📌 @FrankForreal_]

let me bookmark this for when i get a nigga

[✰ @whoisfolaa]

honestly, i don’t stay mad at people for long. i might never speak to you again, but that doesn’t mean i’m sitting around angry. once i’m done, i’m just done. no hard feelings, no revenge, no bitterness just distance and peace.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

Did you know butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings? It's okay to rest during the storms of life. You'll always fly again

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

someone said, "don't tell anyone your business unless it benefits you that they know" and the older i get, the more i realize how true this is

[Bongekile Mthembu🇿🇦 @_Bongekile_]

South African men are still shocked that Sithelo got married after 30, with three kids from different men. 😭

They’re genuinely baffled. Because somehow they think they’re the only men in the world and that every woman’s options end at the borders of South Africa. 😂😭😂🤣

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

I can't fuck with people that don't understand the principle of things. Yeah the situation may be small but it's about the principle. Out of all the ways you could move, you choose that way?

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

I literally HAD TO FIGHT MY WAY OUT OF THAT DARK SPACE IN LIFE AND I REFUSE TO LET ANYONE TAKE ME BACK!!! That goes for family, friends, relationships. I CANNOT LOSE ME ANYMORE !!!

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

A man calling you "baby" means nothing. A man calling you his girlfriend means nothing. A man giving you a baby means nothing. I'm about to hurt some feelings with this next one... A man marrying you means ΝΟΤΗING. You know what actually means something? A man changing himself, his lifestyle, and his ways because he doesn't want to lose you. THAT'S what means something.

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

A man can really get mad at you because he’s lying to you and you’re refusing to believe the lie. 😭

[Altine Kasire @altinekasre1]

I’m currently surviving the hardest season of my life. I have no clue what God is up to. Nevertheless, I’m standing in expectation that on the other side of this, there will be joy.

[Emmy 🦋 @emmyxtweets]

This chapter is teaching me to accept things for what they are and make peace with them regardless of what I want them to be.