This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.
Someone said to me today “maybe you’re not intensifying on your job search enough because your parents still take full responsibility of you”
I didn’t even know when I started crying after that cos dyk how annoying it is that I am trying so hard but there’s no result
Having your own money changes the dynamic you have with the people in your life. From parents, friends to romantic partners. It gives you a chance to love and interact with them from a place of choice and not survival. Your money gives you options of who stays in your life. Stay rich ma nigga.
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
Y’all stop calling people lazy because they unemployed. They probably applied to 200 jobs they were qualified for, got ghosted, received underpaid offers, and dealt with constant rejection. The system is broken, not their work ethic.
do everything that you can to increase the surface area of luck
a job, a startup, a relationship
whatever it is - do everything, shoot the wildest of shots, be shameless and do things with intent