Findings from the USA's 2023 National Survey of Family Growth for men 35-49, filtered by education:
"How many women have you slept with?"
BACHELORS DEGREE OR HIGHER
0: 7.6%
1-9: 62.0%
10-19: 15.6%
20+: 14.8%
LESS THAN BACHELORS
0: 8.0%
1-9: 53.6%
10-19: 18.0%
20+: 20.4%
#HotGirlsOverheard (20) "I am essentially the key that unlocks my frenemy's vaj. My sleeping with a guy for any length of time is the stamp of approval she needs to seduce him herself."
#HotGirlsOverheard (29) "I'm so relieved that my frenemy finally got ostracized by my friend group, because I didn't have the balls to say anything even after she told me my hookup was out of my league, and I found out she was sleeping another girl's bf."
#HotGirlsOverheard (27) "A low-key reason why we girls sometimes ostracize our slutty friends is they act competitive with us about who's getting laid more."
#HotGirlsOverheard (31) "I blocked a cute guy in my DMs because he wanted to flex on being a law professor so bad that he kept using out-of-context legal jargon in the convo."
#HotGirlsOverheard (26) "My bestie sent me flowers, and when I posted it, my other girlfriends assumed they came from my situationship. I'm too embarrassed to tell them otherwise."
#HotGirlsOverheard (23) "Moving back to Brazil after studying in the US is making me miss being able to fit a king-sized mattress through my bedroom door."
#HotGirlsOverheard (24,Costa Rica) "My local guy leaves me on read when I sext him. The cute gringo in Denver from ig texts me like 'Happy Monday baby! I know you're busy but I wish you a wonderful day.' 'Lovely princess, beautiful.' 'Take care of your business I'm always here.'"
#HotGirlsOverheard (21) "In my Colombian hometown, it's the guys who kiss and tell, while the girls keep sexual details to themselves. But now that I'm in the US, it's the opposite."
#HotGirlsOverheard (21) "Pretty-girl privilege is complaining to my boyfriend that I woke up in a shitty mood and having him book us a trip to Ibiza by noon."
#HotGirlsOverheard (18) "When I was picking a fight with my bf over text, he got me to forget my tantrum with just, 'ok, I'm grilling some burgers if you're hungry.' Well played!"
#HotGirlsOverheard (20 y/o) "I was this close to flaking on going over to my fwb's place until he said he had already gotten pizza and beer. Well played."
#HotGirlsOverheard (18) "When I told the neighborhood guy I'd been flirting with to watch himself because I had a boyfriend, he responded, 'It's ok, I have a girlfriend.' Our subsequent kiss was hot as hell. Well played!"
#HotGirlsOverheard (24) "When my top-of-rotation guys start to grow distant, all it takes is a story in my underwear to get them pleading for another night, because they know if it's not them, it will be someone else."
#dread
#HotGirlsOverheard (18) "I've been so in awe of my boyfriend's face and body that when a guy flirted with me at a party yesterday, I was shocked when he got jealous."
(female 10 discovers yes, she can even run dread on a male 10)
#HotGirlsOverheard (24) "My fb flaked on me two hours before our date, so my girls posted pics to make it look like we were at a house party with some dudes. Hook, line and sinker, he started texting me almost immediately."
#HotGirlsOverheard (28) "My 4,000 followers are well trained - they know I rarely post selfie stories, so when I do, it's because I'm open to dating. And just like that, I've got three promising dates lined up. And no, this doesn't mean I've ditched my 2021-era hookup."
#HotGirlsOverheard (21) "My cute guy friend who I've always had some flirtatious banter with, played himself by sending me tipsy audios saying he was going to take me pub crawling and wouldn't take no for an answer. A bit too obvious, bro?"
#HotGirlsOverheard (25) "I went from being into him to being meh the moment I saw his chest hair. Some girls don't care about this but the ones who do want it clean."
#HotGirlsOverheard (23) "There's a cute 26 y/o at my church who seems chill and we text sometimes, but last Sunday he played himself when he started talking to my mom about how marriage-minded he is. Hold up now!"
#HotGirlsOverheard (24) "UPDATE: this guy played himself by texting me every three hours and leaving missed calls, begging to come over when I made the mistake of telling him I was home alone."
#HotGirlsOverheard (24) "The 8 y/o boy I babysat at 14 is now 18, and our families vacation together so recently when he changed clothes I saw his penis and blurted 'you've gotten big everywhere!' The next day I left the door open while showering, and he stared back at my body."
#HotGirlsOverheard (27) "It's amazing how low I will stoop for my hot hookup. Usually a guy asking me what I want for my birthday is a turnoff, but when he did it I immediately responded 'make me blow out your candle.'"