Babies get raped. Elderly women get raped. Women dressed modestly get raped. Women in hijabs get raped. Nuns get raped. Women in jeans, tracksuits, pajamas, school uniforms, and work uniforms get raped. There is no outfit that prevents rape and no outfit that invites it.
If you are more comfortable analyzing a woman’s clothing than condemning a rapist, you are part of the problem.
I’m starting to realize that parental neglect is more pervasive with most of us than I ever considered. So many folks conditions + what they’re seeking in romance or in friendship really come down to trying to *finally* get parented in the way they needed as a child.